on girl love

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the more i write this blog, the more i think of girl love.
it’s not that i’m attracted to women, because on the larger scale, i’m not. but there are those few people who transcend gender and sexuality. those people with such effusive senses of self that it’s nigh impossible to not get turned on watching them.
every now and then, there’s a chick with the right hair, the right clothes, the right demeanour, and some kinda sexy goin’ on, all combined to a T.
my god, my interest flares. it’s kind of like the perfect alignment of the sexual cosmos. but it would take a lotta woman to get my lovin’.
that said, if i were lured to the pussy side, it’d have to be because of the softness and the contours of a woman’s body. i wouldn’t go for skinny chicks, i don’t think. a little curve would be necessary, but how much curve wouldn’t really matter. anything but the grand flats, if you know what i’m saying.
as a photographer, i know i would be aroused by having a really hot chick naked on my bed. i can’t help it. physicality in front of me just gets me riled. i’d have to seize the opportunity to shoot her, and in so doing, my intrigue would escalate. i’d need to touch, to explore.
i mean, having her just lie there, naked, natural, and at my beck and call? my god. i’m not strong enough to resist that.
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the closest i’ve probably ever come to taking a chick up on the offer was back in the day when i had long hair, up in the yukon.
now, you need to know that my hair is probably among the thickest i’ve ever seen. even thinned out, it tends to be 3-4″ thick when long.
these days, riding a bike and needing to wear a nasty motorcycle helmet daily, i keep it extremely short and punky.
but back then, my hair would get me the most amazing reactions from total strangers. the nicest compliment i’ve ever received, to this day, came from a passer-by on the street.
that day, a man was about 30 or so feet away, walking past to a store, when he caught my eye on a sidewalk cafe, double-took, and crossed over to me.
“excuse me. look, i’m not coming on to you. i’m married, but i just needed to tell you that you have the most beautiful hair i’ve ever seen, and i hope you never cut it. that’s all i wanted to say.” he smiled. “have a great day.”
and he spun around, just like that. never saw him again.
the next most memorable “hair moment,” for me, was in the yukon, in legendary dawson city, when i encountered yukon girl.
i was camping with some friends for a couple nights at a site with no facilities, so i was just cleaning up in a public washroom up there when this chick comes out of a stall. i was smoothing some product in my hair and she saw my face in the mirror. she stepped into my reflection, and said to me, “are you a leo?”
and i laughed, “no.”
so she said, “with that lion’s mane of hair, honey, you oughtta be.”
she growled playfully, and i couldn’t help but grin. i turned to face her. she then proceeded to tell me her campsite number and that she was probably staying behind in her tent that night as her friends were going to the music fest.
she stepped closer, her tits nearly touching mine. “maybe you want to come play.”
i was younger and a little shocked. i’d had chicks come onto me occasionally, but never this brazenly, and never this hot.
today, i’d have gone and played.

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she was my height, about 5’7, and hot long auburn dreadlocks, but the really nice kind. basically, she was a hot, hot hippy chick.
now, i don’t usually dig hippies ‘cos hygeine’s so big for me, and some of them just take it too fucking far. she, however, had taken it nowhere near far. in fact she never left “fine.”
i was very hot for her, to tell the truth. i was just scared — scared of the experience, scared of my sexuality, scared of what it might mean.
but not anymore. i’ve had few regrets in my life, but passing on that opportunity would be one. i can’t help but imagine sinking my teeth into a piece of that.
are you out there, yukon girl? honey, if opportunity’s knocking, i’m answering.

26 thoughts on “on girl love

  1. Simply Her

    I can definately say that I’m with you on the thickness of hair. My hair is reallllyyy thick that not many people can manage cutting it because it’s just too much!

    &personally, I think that if the girl was beautiful enough to catch my eye & there was an opportunity, I think I would seize it.
    the female body is a beauty, soft, curved and elegant, it just must be admired.

  2. scribe called steff

    yeah, it’s a bitch to cut thick hair like that, isn’t it? not being able to go to my EXPENSIVE hairdresser (who charges me half the normal rate, and THAT is $65) who’s voted number one in vancouver. my hair was fucking great in his hands.

    soon, soon. this bargain haircut crap is REALLY cramping my style. i like having the blonde tints and the fuck-you punk stylings. sigh. i feel so pedestrian.

    and i’m writing a bit of a girl-love fantasy right now. i’ll probably post it sometime next week. could be amusing if i stick to it.

    but i think i’m now in the same mindset as you are, if an opportunity with a hottie arises, i’m gonna be in on that action. life’s too short to pass up experiences, no?

  3. Steve

    This story reminded me of something similar that happened to me.

    A guy I fancied back in college came on to me once, completely out of the blue and I was totally unprepared for it.

    Being fresh out of high school and still bruised from homophobic bullying, I turned him down. I was reclusive and afraid it might be a trick. I realised the error of my ways a few months later and went back to him – he turned me down as he had started seeing someone. “You missed your chance,” he said.

    I regret it to this day. I can’t do anything about my regret – you can, though! Seize the day, I say…

  4. chunu

    Thanks for sharing your pic Steff, at least quickly. Can’t really comment on the girl on girl attraction thing (for obvious reasons), but can make a quick comment on another aspect of today’s post.

    The guy crossing the street to say that you were hot – oh, exact words were hope you never cut your hair? He meant you were hot LOL. And then walked out of your life never to be seen again?

    I consider those types of moments in your life to be some of the heights you can reach, at least in my opinion. You will never forget that will you? The whole thing of an unexpected comments with no expectations or strings attached – as in, I’m saying this to maybe get your phone number or more, if it doesn’t have that attached, it is very special.

    Of course, a different special than a hot girl hitting on you Steff, but you know what I mean. I hope.

  5. scribe called steff

    Steve, sadly, Yukon Girl is probably lost to me. Oh well. I have something up my sleeve for later tonight. Heading out now. Might share later.
    ________

    Chunu — Well, he might’ve meant I was hot, but I was too stupid to know that then. But yeah, I loved that compliment, if only because he spun quickly around and disappeared forever. You gotta know it’s genuine then.

    And I, of course, did. And do. And will. 🙂

  6. scribe called steff

    Thanks. I’ve used the bottom photo before, but it’s sooooo hot it had to get used twice. I think that one’s gonna be filed under “faves.”

  7. LeeLoreya

    those girls kissing up there should drastically lower the heterosexuality level in any person of the female kind who watches the pic for more than three seconds…

    or is it just me…?

  8. piu piu

    i had a really tall blonde girl come onto me about a year ago in a club in east london. my boyfriend was buying drinks at the bar, an this girl saunters over and starts saying something to me i can’t hear cos its loud. After a few seconds of laughing and shouting she leans over and kisses me on the cheek and says in my ear ‘you’re beautiful. can i kiss you?’. It was actually really sweet, but then p came back with the drinks and shooed her away. aw. i was really touched!

  9. scribe called steff

    Leeloreya — No, honey, it ain’t just you. It’s a pretty famous shot, actually, and has been around awhile. I think it’s sizzling hot. Their body language is so intimate.

    Besides, I think chicks in panties and tanks just like that are totally hot. I’ve always loved that about Meg Ryan in her movies, she always has that sex appeal even when in drawstrings and tanks. It’s awesome.

    Piu Piu — Silly guy. You three could’ve had some fun… Tsk. Sounds like a really nice intimate moment. Funny, but it’s probably unlikely a guy would’ve inspired the same response. What do you think? Could a guy convey that as intimately and genuinely as she had?

  10. Grover

    “Oh well. I have something up my sleeve for later tonight. Heading out now. Might share later.”

    …waiting with bated breath.

    My hair gets tons of compliments. Growing it out has been about the best thing I’ve ever done.

  11. scribe called steff

    Ah, scratch that tease, G. A late-night rendezvous with a bodybuilder fell through. We’re hooking up on Sunday instead.

    An older man, too. Hmm. I’ve usually gone for young’uns. But seems like an older bad boy who’s a financial success. What a paradox. Sweet.

    My luck with men has been shit lately, but this guy might finally be smart and secure enough to not get intimidated with me. That’d be a nice change.

    See what happens.

  12. scribe called steff

    By the way, I’m liking your new shot. It’s great. It’s much more flattering on you. Nice. Not being a fan of long hair, it’s the first time I’ve liked it in your photos, actually.

    I’m of the jaw-length-or-shorter mentality on men these days. Used to LOVE long hair once, though. But I love attacking guys’ neck and the long hair gets in the way. Makes me hafta work harder.

    Tsk. And that’s just a shame when my efforts are better spent elsewhere, right?

  13. Grover

    Better spent elsewhere? I think not.

    Well spent, I’m absolutely certain of, but oral attention to the neck is like yeast in bread baking… it is an essential step to ensure a full rise. When Mr. Reiki did that to me, I swear I saw stars.

    And thank you on the honest critique, and compliment. I think it’s the curl. Just yesterday a girl I’ve never met complimented me.

  14. scribe called steff

    lol. nice comment on attention to the neck. yeah, i quite like having short hair now that guys find it easier access to the neck, since it’s by far the easiest way to get me bothered. a little attention to the clavicle can get me in a WORLD of trouble.

    you have a mischevious expression in your new photo, and that’s probably part of the appeal.

  15. chunu

    This is a public service announcement LOL – have googled ‘Yukon Girl’, top three links were the Girl Scouts up north, a strip club in Vancouver and err Adult Friend Finder.

    Over on technorati, which of course is time based – hmm, it doesn’t seem to link to your entry at all? Maybe censorship regards the title, or your blog is too new to be on their stats…

    Your public service advice to have this Yukon girl find you would be to be more specific LOL.

    Just trying to help out, having a quiet moment brain wise on the web currently.

  16. scribe called steff

    yawn. i’m off to bed, but thought i’d comment. that’s funny. i think i can live without yukon girl, but nice of you to search. i doubt “campsite 17” will aid the quest.

    i was walking to the store this afternoon and this dyke, short cropped hair, tank top, cut-off cargo pants, and funky all-stars, loaded with some hot tats and a couple piercings, checked me out and leered at me. she was hot for a bull dyke, but not my type.

    still, always nice to get noticed. fun, fun.

  17. eleventhsky

    I probably like girls more than the average hetero girl, but I’m more turned on by the ideas of kissing and touching girls, which I still do once in a while, more than, say, eating pussy, which I’ve never done. Not sure if my skirting the full experience is a sign of fear and repression, or just — lack of that kind of desire —

  18. scribe called steff

    Yeah, I don’t think I could go down on a chick. I don’t think I’m willing to go there. But she can feel free to have her way with me, of course.

    Kissing and touching’s more my line of thought, where I’m wanting to go.

    I don’t think my unwillingness to eat a woman out is repression, it’s just that I don’t care to experience that. Lack of desire, like you say.

    Thanks for visiting. 🙂

  19. scribe called steff

    I do have to admit, though, that I’d love to see how a woman performs oral on me versus a man.

    Boy, would I.

  20. writergurl

    Seems that I’m the only lesbian who’s willing to comment on this… so here goes… I’ve had sex with both men and women. Sex with men wasn’t dreadful, awful or even all that bad. It just was. Nothing special, nothing spectaular and certainly nothing to jump for joy over. Which is how I suspect the women who are straight would feel about intercourse with a woman. “It’s ok, but *shrug* eh… not really my thing.” Having said that… having a woamn who knows what she’s doing between your legs is NOTHING like having a guy down there. Woman are generally more sensous than men are. There’s also never a worry about “burn” from not quite shaved cheeks and the women (that I’ve been with anyways) alwasy seem to be more versed in what they’re doing down there. Maybe because we all have the same equipment. We know not to do stupid things like bite (nibbles are pleasing but someone chomping away… not on your life!).

    Onto the original topic.. missed opportunities… ah, well that would have to be Debbie. Debbie with the cobalt eyes and seal brown hair. It was years ago, and I still mourn the lost opportunity. Imagine this: Lightning, the great whomping crackling summer storm kind, candles flickering, Tina Turner’s “Private Dancer” softly moaning in the background, she’s laying on her stomache, on top of some pillows and I’m giving her a back rub. She softly moans under my hands and I’m dying to take her blouse off her so I can touch her skin. Why don’t I? Because her 14 year old brother is in THE NEXT FUCKING ROOM! He’s there visiting for a month! By the time he finally left, her ex had come back into the picture and laid claim on her again. So, I never got my chance with Debbie. But, oh, if I had… the ex would have NEVAH gotten her back.

    Yes, I’m that damn good. 😉

  21. scribe called steff

    Ahahaha. Way to go. Thanks for weighing in on the topic. I SO WANT to experience a chick going down on me. Something about that just awoke last month and I really can’t get the thought out of my mind, so I’m actively conscious of chicks checking me out now, and I’ll likely capitalize when the opportunity arises.

    As for sex in proximity with others, I’ll be posting recollections of one oral experience that happened with a friend sleeping by my side, and she never ever awoke despite my b/f going down on me in the same bed. Loved that. LOVED it. Ah, the crazy shit we do sometimes.

    Thanks for coming by. I’m glad to finally have a certified lesbian reader. yay! (I’m sure there are others but none have spoken up.)

    You know, if you’re in Vancouver anytime soon… Heh.

  22. writergurl

    Well, I would have tried something with her, God knows I wanted too.. and was juuuussstt about to make my move when the kid wandered into the living room (here we were) asking for something or another. Scared us both to death! Nothing quite so jarring as being in the midst of that kind of connection, in such a romantic setting and then having a kid spoil it. 🙁

    I’ll let ya know if I get to Vancouver… 😉

  23. scribe called steff

    OH, you were in the LIVING ROOM. Yeah, therein lies the problem.

    As for Vancouver, I’m gonna hold you to that — among other things.

    Tee hee. I’m so bad.

  24. writergurl

    LOL… ‘kay.

    FYI, I’m originally from Seattle… lots of family there, so I visit a couple times a year. So, you’re not THAT safe.

    😉

  25. scribe called steff

    Bahahah! I HOWLED OUT LOUD with that comment. Thanks! Cackled, howled, whatever. You’re hilarious. Thanks.

    And safe ain’t all it’s cracked up to be, honey.

    I can fend for myself! 🙂

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