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This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Monthly Archives: December 2005
Dec
26
2005
A Case for More Communication
Still not convinced that better communication will up the sexual ante? All right, then read on. Imagine you get a job. You’re excited about it. It’s dynamic, exciting. Oh, the possibilities, you think. So, you show up, wing it, and you think, “Hey, it’s okay, after I’ve been here and they’ve seen what my stuff is, [...]
Posted in Advice, better sex, Communication, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, keeping it real, Sex, sexuality Tagged being a better lover, better sex, great sex, hot lover, hotter sex, how to communicate better, how to have hotter sex, how to talk about sex, improving your sex life, job review, more orgasms, performance review, report cards, Sex, sex review, talking about sex, talking with your lover, telling your lover what you want, why communicate 8 Comments
(Ed. Note: In my semi-drunken/contented state last evening, I wrote this and spontaneously published it without editing it. I awoke, and suddenly thought “what have I done?” and then saved as draft, suspecting I might’ve been too open. I’ve since received some very thoughtful, considerate emails, which leaves me thinking I should keep it up… [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Being me, Being single, Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, Specifically Steff Tagged alone, bridget jones, bridget jones diary, christmas, christmas morning, longing, not lonely, open to love, solitary, tales of the city, thoughts at christmas, tired of single, waking up single, wanting love, why i write, wishing for love 11 Comments
Dec
19
2005
New topics?
Readers’ Stuff Wanted! My writing’s been a little self-involved lately (just like me). Life’s been coming at me at warp speed of late and I’m feeling a tad discombobulated. I’m wanting to write a fun, dirty little Christmas story, and if a little time should avail itself to me, then I shall. I’ll show you [...]
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Dec
15
2005
Getting What You Ask For
Words hurt. What we say can hurt others. It can traumatize them. It can lead to unthinkable acts. Without a doubt, words can hurt. But what we don’t say can often hurt us every bit as much. Unfortunately, as you read this, lovers all over the world are having unnecessarily bad sex all because of words [...]
Posted in Communication, Education, How To Guides, Humour, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Orgasm Trouble, Romance, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality Tagged better sex, communicating, Communication, comparing notes, discussing tastes, learning about sex tastes, opening up, sex discussion, sex questions, sex questions to ask, sex talk, sharing, speaking up, talking about sex, things to ask, things to talk about with sex 9 Comments
Lights, Camera, and… Action?