Comments on: A Ramble: Valentine’s Day http://cuntinglinguist.com/2006/02/a-ramble-valentines-day.html It seems I always have something on the tip of my tongue. Thu, 29 Jul 2010 18:59:18 +0000 hourly 1 By: scribe called steff http://cuntinglinguist.com/2006/02/a-ramble-valentines-day.html/comment-page-1#comment-1505 scribe called steff Thu, 16 Feb 2006 16:34:00 +0000 http://www.smuttysteff.com/?p=158#comment-1505 April -- Ha! Thanks. I've got years of practice writing Valentine's Day rants. I didn't even get onto the topic of sex being a year-round sport, not just a February thing.<br/><br/>Jenna -- That's the thing... it's hard to be single and happy, but if you can get there, be that, have that, then you will always at least have that. And I'm not 100% thrilled with myself, but I'm at about 90% and I know what the last 10% will take, and I'm on the verge of delivering that to myself.<br/><br/>And yes, you'll be waiting for a guy, sure. It's hard to find a good man who's unthreatened by that, but it's worth it to wait. I find I'm still waiting, but the potentials I'm finding seem to be more and more right for me as time passes. One will work, and soon, I suspect.<br/><br/>Backspace -- Heh. Right on. :) And HEY, COOL, you're a Vancouver girl. Glad you dug it. April — Ha! Thanks. I’ve got years of practice writing Valentine’s Day rants. I didn’t even get onto the topic of sex being a year-round sport, not just a February thing.

Jenna — That’s the thing… it’s hard to be single and happy, but if you can get there, be that, have that, then you will always at least have that. And I’m not 100% thrilled with myself, but I’m at about 90% and I know what the last 10% will take, and I’m on the verge of delivering that to myself.

And yes, you’ll be waiting for a guy, sure. It’s hard to find a good man who’s unthreatened by that, but it’s worth it to wait. I find I’m still waiting, but the potentials I’m finding seem to be more and more right for me as time passes. One will work, and soon, I suspect.

Backspace — Heh. Right on. :) And HEY, COOL, you’re a Vancouver girl. Glad you dug it.

]]> By: backspace http://cuntinglinguist.com/2006/02/a-ramble-valentines-day.html/comment-page-1#comment-1502 backspace Thu, 16 Feb 2006 08:14:00 +0000 http://www.smuttysteff.com/?p=158#comment-1502 That was a great rant! My single self ate, drank and merried every word of it. :-) That was a great rant! My single self ate, drank and merried every word of it. :-)

]]> By: Jenna http://cuntinglinguist.com/2006/02/a-ramble-valentines-day.html/comment-page-1#comment-1501 Jenna Thu, 16 Feb 2006 03:16:00 +0000 http://www.smuttysteff.com/?p=158#comment-1501 It took me longer than it should have to realize that its better to be single and <i>happy</i>, than in a relationship that left me with the slightest bit of doubt. He was my only <i>relationship</i> and I've learned to take baby steps from here on in. Im a better person when Im happy with myself, and Im willing to wait as long as it takes for a guy who is secure enough in himself to realize that. It took me longer than it should have to realize that its better to be single and happy, than in a relationship that left me with the slightest bit of doubt. He was my only relationship and I’ve learned to take baby steps from here on in. Im a better person when Im happy with myself, and Im willing to wait as long as it takes for a guy who is secure enough in himself to realize that.

]]> By: April http://cuntinglinguist.com/2006/02/a-ramble-valentines-day.html/comment-page-1#comment-1499 April Thu, 16 Feb 2006 02:57:00 +0000 http://www.smuttysteff.com/?p=158#comment-1499 Wonderful post. So similar to what I've written...but written better. :) Wonderful post. So similar to what I’ve written…but written better. :)

]]> By: scribe called steff http://cuntinglinguist.com/2006/02/a-ramble-valentines-day.html/comment-page-1#comment-1497 scribe called steff Thu, 16 Feb 2006 02:39:00 +0000 http://www.smuttysteff.com/?p=158#comment-1497 Yer the lone voice who seems to think so. Slow comment day.<br/><br/>But here, allow me to take a bow. :)<br/><br/>Thanks for the appreciation. I found it a little longwinded, but I just didn't care to shorten it. The trials of being your own editor -- sometimes you just pull rank on yourself. Heh. Yer the lone voice who seems to think so. Slow comment day.

But here, allow me to take a bow. :)

Thanks for the appreciation. I found it a little longwinded, but I just didn’t care to shorten it. The trials of being your own editor — sometimes you just pull rank on yourself. Heh.

]]> By: Beth http://cuntinglinguist.com/2006/02/a-ramble-valentines-day.html/comment-page-1#comment-1496 Beth Thu, 16 Feb 2006 00:59:00 +0000 http://www.smuttysteff.com/?p=158#comment-1496 Really lovely. Applause, applause. Really lovely. Applause, applause.

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