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	<title>Comments on: On Female Masturbation, Faking Orgasms, &amp; The Psychology of Sex</title>
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		<title>By: PT Lover</title>
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		<dc:creator>PT Lover</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 06:11:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Whenever it&#039;s safe to do so, and sometimes even when it&#039;s not, I am quite an expressive masturbator, and no, I was not always that way. I started masturbating young, around age 8, before I had any concept of dirty talk, though I did have vivid fantasies. As I got older, I developed my dirty vocabulary, and at the same time, my queerness and kinks began to express themselves. At age 14, I started having regular phone sex with an internet boyfriend that turned into a long-distance relationship, which enabled me to develop my talents as a moaner and screamer. 

A few years later, I began regular in-person sex life with my then-boyfriend, and little by little started expressing myself in person verbally as well. Steadily I learned to be vocal with what I wanted and how I felt during sex, which turned me on faster and made me cum harder -- both quite positive changes to the sex life in general. Eventually, this process opened doors for me both sexually and professionally, as when I entered college and lost my part-time retail job, I became a part-time phone sex operator, able to put my natural vocal tendencies to work for me, though it did hasten the deterioration of relationships with fussy neighbors.

I really do miss that job.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whenever it’s safe to do so, and sometimes even when it’s not, I am quite an expressive masturbator, and no, I was not always that way. I started masturbating young, around age 8, before I had any concept of dirty talk, though I did have vivid fantasies. As I got older, I developed my dirty vocabulary, and at the same time, my queerness and kinks began to express themselves. At age 14, I started having regular phone sex with an internet boyfriend that turned into a long-distance relationship, which enabled me to develop my talents as a moaner and screamer. </p>
<p>A few years later, I began regular in-person sex life with my then-boyfriend, and little by little started expressing myself in person verbally as well. Steadily I learned to be vocal with what I wanted and how I felt during sex, which turned me on faster and made me cum harder — both quite positive changes to the sex life in general. Eventually, this process opened doors for me both sexually and professionally, as when I entered college and lost my part-time retail job, I became a part-time phone sex operator, able to put my natural vocal tendencies to work for me, though it did hasten the deterioration of relationships with fussy neighbors.</p>
<p>I really do miss that job.<br />
<span class="cluv"> PT Lover´s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ptlover/~3/YCqbLvVL2E8/446940826" rel="nofollow">(via pornilove)</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://cuntinglinguist.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: T.Bean</title>
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		<dc:creator>T.Bean</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 23:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was talking to my husband about orgasms the other day.. I tried explaining to him why I didn&#039;t need to cum every time when we have sex &amp; I came up with the analogy of window shopping. I don&#039;t need to buy something to have a good time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was talking to my husband about orgasms the other day.. I tried explaining to him why I didn’t need to cum every time when we have sex &amp; I came up with the analogy of window shopping. I don’t need to buy something to have a good time.</p>
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		<title>By: C.J. Strata</title>
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		<dc:creator>C.J. Strata</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 18:39:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s a bit trickier to be vocal when you&#039;re in a relatively small house with three other family members...but then, most things are in that situation.  =P&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Oh, also, typing tip for ya:  I see you using a lot of double-dashes for interjections.  Dunno if you&#039;d be interested in switching it up, but I know it always bugged me that I couldn&#039;t use a single long line instead of two of the short ones.  To get an Em Dash—you know, these things—make sure you&#039;re in a text field, hold alt, press 0151 on the number pad, then release alt.  Just in case you&#039;re interested.  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It’s a bit trickier to be vocal when you’re in a relatively small house with three other family members…but then, most things are in that situation.  =P</p>
<p>Oh, also, typing tip for ya:  I see you using a lot of double-dashes for interjections.  Dunno if you’d be interested in switching it up, but I know it always bugged me that I couldn’t use a single long line instead of two of the short ones.  To get an Em Dash—you know, these things—make sure you’re in a text field, hold alt, press 0151 on the number pad, then release alt.  Just in case you’re interested.  ;)</p>
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		<title>By: D.P.</title>
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		<dc:creator>D.P.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 18:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>From a man&#039;s perspective--thank you, thank you, thank you! And this isn&#039;t even a thank you in terms of how much of a turn-on loud expressive sex is. It helps your partner figure out what&#039;s going on, how well things are going, what&#039;s working, what&#039;s not, and where both people are in terms of timing, etc. I&#039;ve often made the joke--which to me, and I suspect to many men, is not a joke--that both partners should use little bells during sex to signify &quot;YES!&quot; and &quot;ehhh, not so much.&quot; Your advice here, applied to men and women, eliminates the bell joke/theory.&lt;br/&gt;Everyone should be damn loud. And expressive. It just makes it better for everyone.&lt;br/&gt;Simply wonderful advice.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From a man’s perspective–thank you, thank you, thank you! And this isn’t even a thank you in terms of how much of a turn-on loud expressive sex is. It helps your partner figure out what’s going on, how well things are going, what’s working, what’s not, and where both people are in terms of timing, etc. I’ve often made the joke–which to me, and I suspect to many men, is not a joke–that both partners should use little bells during sex to signify “YES!” and “ehhh, not so much.” Your advice here, applied to men and women, eliminates the bell joke/theory.<br />Everyone should be damn loud. And expressive. It just makes it better for everyone.<br />Simply wonderful advice.</p>
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		<title>By: eye candy</title>
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		<dc:creator>eye candy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 14:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I only started getting expressive during masturbation within the last couple of years (Im 27), and only when I learned that being vocal during sex made ME enjoy the sex more. I then took that home and applied it to masturbation. Plus its nice to drown out the sounds of the vibrator if that&#039;s what Im using.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I only started getting expressive during masturbation within the last couple of years (Im 27), and only when I learned that being vocal during sex made ME enjoy the sex more. I then took that home and applied it to masturbation. Plus its nice to drown out the sounds of the vibrator if that’s what Im using.</p>
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