About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Category Archives: better sex
May
06
2010
Add Another Voice to the Fray
For everything I’ve published this week, four have gone into the depths, filed under lock and key, not fit for sharing. Too personal, too exploratory, too unconnected, too any-number-of-things. A lot of what I batted around regards my relationship with sex: Where it’s been, where it went, why it changed, why it matters, what it [...]
Also posted in Best of Steff, blogging, Communication, Dimestore Philosophy, freedom, Gay or Straight?, History, keeping it real, Kink, Life 101, Lifestyle, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Psychology & Moods, relationships, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, writing Tagged audience, average people, bdsm, Bondage, demographic, freedoms, Kink, Lifestyle, middle of the road, Oral Sex, Politics, preferences, sex blogging, sex trade workers, sex writing, sexual tastes, styles, the sex community, writing about sex 2 Comments
Jun
11
2006
Say Something, Dammit
The sky is blue. This I know. I can be told once in my life that the sky is blue, and I need not be reminded. I may have had three concussions and had bleeding on my brain, but I’m sufficiently clued in enough to be able to recall the blueness of that great big yonder [...]
Also posted in Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Communication, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, dysfunction, keeping it real, Marriage & Other Commitments, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, relationships, Romance, Sex, sexuality, Society, Women's Department Tagged affection, attitude, being female, being loved, Communication, compliments, differences, emotions, estrogen, estrogenies, hormones, how to deal, how we deal, little things, madness, men and women, moods, periods, physical, PMS, securities, self-involved, sexes, showing love, speaking up, tenderness, understanding, unexpected, ways to improve, what to say, what we need to hear, when to talk 9 Comments
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