Category Archives: Bondage

Jun
04
2006

Whip Me, Beat Me, Slap Me – Just Don’t Judge Me

While all the good little people were out getting in touch with their god of choice, I was having a lovely Sunday morning watching a BDSM fairytale, Secretary. I’ve been meaning to see Secretary since its release in 2002, as I’ve been a lifelong fan of James Spader ever since I loved hating him in [...]
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May
15
2006

Bondage for Beginners: Part Two, Basic Guidelines

(I forgot to include the link to part one, which is here.) Bondage can become part of your life for a lot of reasons. Sometimes, it’s a way for folks to deal with the anxiety of their lives; symbolically giving control to another, or taking control. Sometimes, it’s for less honourable reasons. Sometimes, it’s just another [...]
Also posted in Advice, Best of Steff, better sex, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, sexuality, Women's Department | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments
May
10
2006

Bondage for Beginners, Part One: What You Need

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, bondage is something everyone should experience. Too often, things like bondage or use of sex toys or whatever are all obscured by a perception that they’re made for people who REALLY are into sex as a lifestyle. Not so. But even if it were so, what’s so [...]
Also posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, better sex, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Questions From Readers, relationships, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, Society, Women's Department | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 34 Comments
May
08
2006

White sheets? Why, for god’s sake?

Now, admit it, this picture’s hot. I don’t care who ya are, boy or girl, this is hot. If the sheets were any other colour, would it be as hot? Probably not. If you take a look around, almost every gorgeous erotic shot you see featuring sheets, they’re white. There’s something about white sheets — simplicity, [...]
Also posted in Dating, Food & Recipes, Foreplay & Arousing, Humour, Kink, relationships, Romance, Sex, Sex Toys & Aids, sexuality, Women's Department | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 11 Comments
Mar
26
2006

What Happens In Vegas, Stays In Vegas (Baby)

I stirred up a little controversy with this posting the other day when I said most women didn’t like porn sex. C’mon, a girl can have some fun, n’est ce pas? I love aggressive sex. I love a mix. I come with my own multi-speed. I can’t do the same thing all the time, and [...]
Also posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, better sex, casual sex, Ethics, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, keeping it real, Kink, Lifestyle, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), relationships, Sex, sexuality, Society, Women's Department | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments
Oct
15
2005

Bondage on the cheap?

Are you, like me, a fan of light bondage, but not into the sorts of high-end bondage bed sets that cost an arm and a leg? Do you lack an old-fashioned headboard to bind your lover to? Have no fear. Here’s a two-dollar bondage hijinks tip from yours truly. Visit your local dollar store and pick [...]
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