Category Archives: Games

Sep
24
2010

Murderball: Primal Is As Primal Does

Bear with me. If you know my writing style, you know that, just because I start one place, doesn’t mean I’m gonna stay there. This starts off about wheelchair sports, but becomes a considering of what we are as humans, so give it a chance. Thanks! Any sport with “murder” in the name sounds like [...]
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Jul
21
2006

Beginner’s Fun with Role Play

In Cronenberg’s A History of Violence, we’re given a great beginner’s demonstration of how to perform low-stress, low-prep role playing games. In that scene, Viggo Mortensen’s character is seduced by his wife, who says, “We never got to be teenagers together… I’m going to fix that.” She abandons him in the bedroom for an uncomfortable length [...]
Also posted in Advice, better sex, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, Men's Department, relationships, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, Women's Department | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments
May
25
2006

Q & A: “You Can Make Me Come, But We Can’t Fuck”

I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I [...]
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May
15
2006

Bondage for Beginners: Part Two, Basic Guidelines

(I forgot to include the link to part one, which is here.) Bondage can become part of your life for a lot of reasons. Sometimes, it’s a way for folks to deal with the anxiety of their lives; symbolically giving control to another, or taking control. Sometimes, it’s for less honourable reasons. Sometimes, it’s just another [...]
Also posted in Advice, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, sexuality, Women's Department | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments
May
10
2006

Bondage for Beginners, Part One: What You Need

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, bondage is something everyone should experience. Too often, things like bondage or use of sex toys or whatever are all obscured by a perception that they’re made for people who REALLY are into sex as a lifestyle. Not so. But even if it were so, what’s so [...]
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Mar
26
2006

What Happens In Vegas, Stays In Vegas (Baby)

I stirred up a little controversy with this posting the other day when I said most women didn’t like porn sex. C’mon, a girl can have some fun, n’est ce pas? I love aggressive sex. I love a mix. I come with my own multi-speed. I can’t do the same thing all the time, and [...]
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