Category Archives: General

The Struggle to Identify Your Struggle

I had an interesting Twitter debate this morning after someone spoke of a Starbucks kid who screwed his store over by twice not showing up as the “keyholder” to open the shop. The debate came from completely different perspectives — I’m getting on in my 30s, spent 15 years in retail, dreamed of a better day [...]
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Whatchoo Want, Willis?

So, good people of Bloggerville, we the bosses of this here “Smutty” ward want to know just what wingdings I should install on this blog by tomorrow afternoon? Like, “share” and “tweet” buttons, obviously. I’m gonna be so 2007 in no time at all. But what else, man? What else should I put here to [...]
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Bittersweet Winter Mornings & Their Longings

A little after waking, a furiously beautiful sunrise lit my little part of the world up. Red, red, red, as far as the eye could see. Fire on the horizon, exploding across the cottony clouds that spread west over the Pacific. Some shivers, some cold toes, but it was worth heading out to stand on [...]
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Things to Remember This Christmas

Since 1998, I’ve had every kind of Christmas imaginable. Lonely, magnificent, rich, broke, injured, healthy, in love, out of love. Had ‘em all. I was raised to believe in the magic of Christmas. We’d have a houseful of people singing carols, Dad would make his famous cardiac eggnog, the house was full of decorations and laughter, [...]
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Getting Philosophical as a Birthday Looms

"I commented to a friend once that I'd love to have the trappings of success, but could never live in the trap of success."
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Filler

We use words like “empty” and “full” to judge qualities of life – “Oh, he’s amazing, he leads such a full life!“ “Wow. I feel so sorry for her when she leaves to go home, she looks so sad, like her night and life are so empty.” …But how much of those “full” lives is filler? And [...]
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