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This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Category Archives: Kink
Apr
24
2010
Should I Stay or Should I Go Now?
I had an end-of-the-night chat on Twitter with my friend Tris Hussey (@TrisHussey), one of Vancouver’s best WP blogging smartie-pants, about the strange life of being a vanilla girl in a sex-blogger-world. It’s had me thinking since, which is why I like smartie-pants like Tris. See, he thinks the world needs more sex-positive voices — especially [...]
Also posted in Autobiographical, Being me, Best of Steff, better sex, Communication, Dimestore Philosophy, freedom, Hollywood, keeping it real, Life 101, Lifestyle, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Religion, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants, writing | Tagged attitudes, beliefs, Bondage, caring, Communication, consenting, Hollywood, images, learning about sex, lifestyles, loving, media, messages, modern, openness, perceptions, privacy, Sex, sex blogging, sex education, sex life, sex lives, sex writing, sexuality, Society, steffani cameron, talking about sex, tastes, today, trends, trusting, writing about sex | 6 Comments
Jul
21
2006
Beginner’s Fun with Role Play
In Cronenberg’s A History of Violence, we’re given a great beginner’s demonstration of how to perform low-stress, low-prep role playing games. In that scene, Viggo Mortensen’s character is seduced by his wife, who says, “We never got to be teenagers together… I’m going to fix that.” She abandons him in the bedroom for an uncomfortable length [...]
Also posted in Advice, better sex, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Lifestyle, Men's Department, relationships, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, Women's Department | Tagged dressing up, Kink, playing, role play, role playing, roleplay, toying, what not to do, what to do | 3 Comments
While all the good little people were out getting in touch with their god of choice, I was having a lovely Sunday morning watching a BDSM fairytale, Secretary. I’ve been meaning to see Secretary since its release in 2002, as I’ve been a lifelong fan of James Spader ever since I loved hating him in [...]
Also posted in Being me, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, freedom, keeping it real, Laws, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Marriage & Other Commitments, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, relationships, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, Uncategorized, Women's Department | Tagged bdsm, beliefs, Bondage, choices, dominance, Games, hangups, Hollywood, issues, james spader, Kink, Lifestyle, movies, perceptions, personal choices, personal needs, perspective, playing, pretty in pink, restraints, roleplay, s&m, screenplays, scripts, secretary, Sex, sexuality, spanking, submission, tastes | 15 Comments
May
24
2006
Sex Bites
Here’s an assortment of “quickie” pieces. __________________ A sex theme park is set to open later on this year. “Amora: The Academy of Sex and Relationships” will contain exhibits that focus on improving sexual relationships and enhance people’s loving abilities. There’ll be life-sized silicone models on which visitors can examine erogenous zones, and more. Beats the [...]
Also posted in Current Events, Sex | Tagged news, news bites, pieces, quickie, Sex, short stories, stories | 8 Comments
(I forgot to include the link to part one, which is here.) Bondage can become part of your life for a lot of reasons. Sometimes, it’s a way for folks to deal with the anxiety of their lives; symbolically giving control to another, or taking control. Sometimes, it’s for less honourable reasons. Sometimes, it’s just another [...]
Also posted in Advice, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, sexuality, Women's Department | Tagged basics, binds, Bondage, bondage for beginners, for beginners, Games, getting tied up, harnesses, how to do bondage, introduction, Kink, kinky, learning bondage, leather, playing, restraints, ropes, safety, Sex, sex games, straps, techniques, ties, tips, tying her up, tying him up, what not to do, what to do | 9 Comments
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