Category Archives: Marriage & Other Commitments

The New Post-Relationship World

There’s a couple that have been long prominent in Vancouver’s web community, and last night came the heart-breaking news that they’re ending their marriage. How did the news reach us all? They both changed their Facebook relationship status to “…from married to single” within moments of each other, and with one simple “Yes, it means what [...]
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The Annual Anti-Valentine’s Posting: 2009 Edition

Every year, without fail, I'm forced to write yet another posting saying pretty much all the same things. Like, if you can't be romantic the rest of the year, you don't deserve a lover. If you can't remember to live with passion when it's not February 14th, then you're wasting oxygen.
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Let Rick Warren Speak.

This will offend a lot of people’s sentiments, and I don’t care, I’m saying it anyhow. I am absolutely pro-gay rights. I am completely for gay marriage and gay adoption rights. I loathe violence against gays, and think “hate crimes” prosecutions should be used not only more frequently, but more vehemently. That said, it’s times [...]
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eHarmony: The Battle for Gay Rights in a Nutshell

I’ll get to the changing-your-life follow-up on the weekend. News comes first. Back in 2005, eHarmony got slapped with a lawsuit for discrimination because gays couldn’t use the service. Now, personally, considering their overpriced, weird cult-like dating service, I kinda thought eHarmony was doing gays a favour. But I agree with the spirit of the lawsuit, [...]
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Is it Possible?: Sex in the White House? Without Infidelity?

Something I absolutely love about the Obamas is the intensity of their attraction to each other. It’s so obvious. He lights up when he sees her. She totally adores him. But it’s bigger than that. Probably the best footage I’ve ever seen that represents their relationship was this footage shot behind the scenes while they both [...]
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To Dabble or Not to Dabble

I’m all torn these days. The more I consider relationships, the more I realize I don’t really know what I want, nor what I can handle. I’ve accepted a date for sometime next week with a poly guy. I’m curious as to whether I can process such a relationship. I’m not concerned about my ability [...]
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