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Category Archives: Marriage & Other Commitments
Every year, without fail, I'm forced to write yet another posting saying pretty much all the same things. Like, if you can't be romantic the rest of the year, you don't deserve a lover. If you can't remember to live with passion when it's not February 14th, then you're wasting oxygen.
Dec
18
2008
Let Rick Warren Speak.
This will offend a lot of people’s sentiments, and I don’t care, I’m saying it anyhow. I am absolutely pro-gay rights. I am completely for gay marriage and gay adoption rights. I loathe violence against gays, and think “hate crimes” prosecutions should be used not only more frequently, but more vehemently. That said, it’s times [...]
Also posted in Current Events, Dimestore Philosophy, Gay or Straight?, Lifestyle, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics Tagged gay rights, inauguration, obama, rick warren 11 Comments
I’ll get to the changing-your-life follow-up on the weekend. News comes first. Back in 2005, eHarmony got slapped with a lawsuit for discrimination because gays couldn’t use the service. Now, personally, considering their overpriced, weird cult-like dating service, I kinda thought eHarmony was doing gays a favour. But I agree with the spirit of the lawsuit, [...]
Also posted in Best of Steff, Dating, Gay or Straight?, Laws, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Society, Steff Rants Tagged asshattery, Compatible Partners, eHarmony, gay rights, modern love, online dating 10 Comments
Sep
04
2008
To Dabble or Not to Dabble
I’m all torn these days. The more I consider relationships, the more I realize I don’t really know what I want, nor what I can handle. I’ve accepted a date for sometime next week with a poly guy. I’m curious as to whether I can process such a relationship. I’m not concerned about my ability [...]
Also posted in Dating, Journalling, Lifestyle, Specifically Steff Tagged debating, open relationships, poly, things to consider, torn, tradition 7 Comments
The New Post-Relationship World