Category Archives: Masturbation

Mar
16
2010

RetroSteff: Why 40% of Women Don’t Masturbate

When this blog first began, for its first year or so, it was all sex or relationships that I was writing about. Most of the time, anyhow, as I kept my “personal” writing on another blog. Somewhere along the way, I gave up separating the two. But as I’m getting into writing my book, something’s got [...]
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May
22
2009

Manufacturing Self

Should be rushing out the door, instead I found myself trying on a variety of clothes. Tonight, the wardrobe-beefing-up continues with a visit to yet another couple department stores. Old Navy and its ilk can wait till the weekend sometime. I’m still trying to figure out my new image, and new styles I can now [...]
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Sep
22
2008

Sex-Toy Review: The Stubby G!

Let’s talk sex toys today. Specifically, I’ll be reviewing The Stubby G. First, I want to explain how a few things work for all y’all, since I know sex-blog readers see these reviews all the time, and, personally, I see that 95% of them are positive, so I could understand how review-readers might skeptically dismiss [...]
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Sep
08
2008

Sex Toy Review: “The Lovely (and lamely-named) Rose”

I’m sorry, but I often really, really hate the name of sex toys. And this is no exception. From Emma’s Passion Garden comes the Dual Rose aka “The Lovely Rose.” Jesus, people. Fire the marketing department, because this toy deserves so much better. Really. Nonetheless, when a guy was recently given the choice of what [...]
Also posted in Foreplay & Arousing, Hygiene & Health, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sex Toy Reviews, Sex Toys & Aids, Women's Department | Tagged , , , , , | 5 Comments
Aug
11
2008

Vaginas: Uptight, everything’s all right? Not so much.

There’s a scene in The Tailor of Panama in which Pierce Brosnan, as Andy Osnard, a British spy reassigned to Panama, is shown his new office for the first time by his hot but too tense new colleague. He wanders to a safe in the wall above his new desk and starts trying to crack [...]
Also posted in Advice, Best of Steff, Hygiene & Health, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Orgasm Trouble, Sex Toys & Aids, Women's Department, dysfunction | Tagged , , , , , | 7 Comments
Aug
06
2008

Holy Return of the Libido, Batman!

Sex. It’s been a while. Honestly? It’s been two years. As I’ve written about at length, I went on anti-depressants the summer of ’06, after birth control pills messed my body up something fierce, at the tail end of a relationship that turned to shit in record time, while getting laid off of multiple jobs in [...]
Also posted in Best of Steff, Dating, General, Humour, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Specifically Steff, Steff Rants | Tagged , , , , , | 6 Comments

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