About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Category Archives: Orgasm Trouble
When this blog first began, for its first year or so, it was all sex or relationships that I was writing about. Most of the time, anyhow, as I kept my “personal” writing on another blog. Somewhere along the way, I gave up separating the two. But as I’m getting into writing my book, something’s got [...]
Also posted in feminism, keeping it real, Lifestyle, Masturbation, Modern Feminism, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, Women's Department Leave a comment
PLEASE READ THE COMMENT DISCUSSION ON THIS POSTING, SINCE THERE ARE VALID CONCERNS BEFORE FOLLOWING ANYTHING IN THIS POSTING. Let me be perfectly clear: This is NOT a posting about how to heal back pain. This remedy is for MY back pain, conjured after a few hours of one-on-one time with a physiotherapist who took [...]
Also posted in Advice, How To Guides, Hygiene & Health, Specifically Steff Tagged back pain, fitness, health, how to do kegels, how to strengthen low back, kegels, the right way, weightloss 6 Comments
There’s a scene in The Tailor of Panama in which Pierce Brosnan, as Andy Osnard, a British spy reassigned to Panama, is shown his new office for the first time by his hot but too tense new colleague. He wanders to a safe in the wall above his new desk and starts trying to crack [...]
[Steff note: This posting began as an attempt for me to try and explain a little why women should act out loud when they’re masturbating in the privacy of home — thrusting, grabbing at their breasts and ass, grunting, whatever it takes… but it got a lot deeper and a lot bigger than just a [...]
First things: Here’s where I remind you people that I’m not a doctor. I have no degrees in any medical or scientific discipline. I’m schooled in common sense and street smarts, and that’s it. In more blunt terms? Take my words for what they’re worth – an interested party offering an opinion, nothing more. In [...]
Also posted in Advice, Best of Steff, dysfunction, Education, fitness, Foreplay & Arousing, Hygiene & Health, keeping it real, Life 101, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Questions From Readers, relationships, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Women's Department Tagged check-up, doctor, dried up, exercise, fitness, health, investigate, libido, no interested, not aroused, not horny, sex drive, uninterested, weight 2 Comments
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