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Category Archives: Romance
Sep
09
2009
Dating Options 101: Whatchagot
I had too much wine on Saturday night, wrote this. Didn’t publish it for fear I might’ve said too much. In vino veritas and all. So here’s the version you see. :) I’m being antisocial. Again. I’m at that point where people are draining me, so I know I need my time to myself. Some guy’s [...]
Also posted in Dating, Humour, Journalling, Specifically Steff Tagged a weekend alone, boys, casual sex, Dating, dry spells, men, single, whatchagot 2 Comments
Apr
20
2009
Of Walls, Waits, and Wistfulness
It was a warm and spring-like evening when our heroine sat tapping away at her keyboard, clad in unsightly short shorts and a 15-year-old concert t-shirt that never would live to see the streets again. Tom Waits wailed in his gravelly splendour as a breeze softly batted the bamboo blinds. She peered over the rim [...]
Also posted in Dating, Lust & Longing, Sex, Specifically Steff, Twitter Tagged great kissing, kissing, tom waits, walls, weak at the knees, wistfulness 3 Comments
Mar
12
2009
Arousing — Er, Awaking the Beast
I’m at my breaking point, I suspect. My resolve isn’t very resolved anymore. I have this incredibly awesome gift most people would KILL for. When I’m not sexually involved, I can flip my libido off like a lightswitch. It’s why I’m so content to not date. Because dating just toys with my resolve. Once I’m [...]
Also posted in Being single, Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Humour, Hygiene & Health, Sex, Specifically Steff Tagged awakening, celibacy, Dating, desire, libido, Sex, spring, starting relationships, taking chances 4 Comments
Mar
09
2009
The Unpredictability of the Wildcard
It’s a full moon tonight and I had a bit of a full moon today. A face from the past came ’round. Leaves me with some heavy thinking to do. When the past comes back, it’s for one of two reasons. To either teach you not to go there. Or to prompt you to go there. I [...]
Also posted in Being single, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Psychology & Moods, Specifically Steff Tagged chance-taking, dilemmas, hesitation, optimism, relationships, serendipity, the unexpected 4 Comments
If there’s anything that’ll make me sick of Twitter in a hurry, it’s the endless drama regarding relationships and people’s moods. Some days, life’s too short. That’s not to say that I don’t get it when people need to vent. Oh, do I. I get it. Last night someone complained on Twitter, “Oh, I hate when I [...]
Lightning Strikes: Over in a Flash