About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Category Archives: Sexism
I was 16 on December 6th, 1989, when gunman Marc Lepine stormed into Montreal’s Ecole Polytechnique, an engineering school. When the blood had spilled and screams for the 14 dead women faded into muffled tears, it was found that the gunman had left a note explaining his actions — he’d wanted to kill feminists for [...]
Also posted in Dimestore Philosophy, feminism, History, keeping it real, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Society, Specifically Steff, Women's Department Tagged change, division, ecole polytechnique, ecole polytechnique massacre, evolution, fear, feminism, hate, massacre, modern women, montreal massacre, rights, Society, struggle, violence 4 Comments
Apr
24
2009
RANT: You Think You’re A Feminist?
I can’t stand elitism. I can’t stand the “we’re better than you” mentality. And I sure as fuck can’t stand when someone’s got to get their hate on just to get ahead. A particular blog post from someone in the sex blogging community is ridiculously sexist and moronic in its simplicity, in my opinion. Because I [...]
Jan
06
2009
The Museum of Penis
I'm unlikely to ever, ever be interested in the Museum of Sex if it's going to be this misogynistic before I even put foot in the door. I mean, if there was a woman anywhere on this creative team, I'll eat my bra. And it has an underwire!
Also posted in Dating, History, Humour, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sex, Society, Steff Rants Tagged advertising, commentary, Masturbation, misogyny, Sexism, The Museum of Sex 6 Comments
Oh, god. I was so wrong about how my night would unfold. I think I’m still drunk. It was 4:20 pm when I decided to just randomly text GayBoy. Our exchange went like this: “We should get drunk this weekend.“ “Should we? What do you suggest?“ “I hear alcohol works.“ “People do say that. What type?“ “I’m [...]
Also posted in Best of Steff, Dating, Drugs, General, Humour, Journalling, Modern Feminism, Specifically Steff Tagged drunk, fridge, gayboy, heat wave, sexist electrician, tequila 4 Comments
I was asked a while back what my take on cuckolding is. I didn’t ask what the reader’s interpretation of the word is, but there’s a historical definition of it meaning that the male in a relationship is faithful while the woman can do whatever or whomever she likes. It’s, I guess, a sample of [...]
Also posted in Autobiographical, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, keeping it real, Lifestyle, Marriage & Other Commitments, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Questions From Readers, relationships, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff Tagged bigamy, cheating, cougar, cuckolding, devoted, monogamy, old-fashioned, open relationships, polyamory 7 Comments
Smells Like Sexism, Playtex