About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Category Archives: Viginity
I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I [...]
Also posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Communication, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Masturbation, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Politics, Questions From Readers, relationships, Religion, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants, Women's Department Tagged admitting it, Advice, being real, being sexual, honesty, hypocrisy, issues, kids, masturbating, not telling the truth, owning it, questions and answers, reader advice, relationship advice, romantic advice, sex advice, sexuality, tease, teasing, trust, virginity, young, youth 18 Comments
Mar
11
2006
Advice for Young Lovers
The sun was rising by 6a.m. this morning, and spring seems to be all around. A comment was left by an 18-year-old male, and I thought about when I was 18, the first time I made love, and how disappointed I was. I thought about the things I wish I’d been told back then. These [...]
Also posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, better sex, Dimestore Philosophy, Education, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Orgasm Trouble, Sex, Sex Education, sex tips, sexuality, Society, Women's Department Tagged Advice, first time for sex, how do you know, how to have sex with someone you love, how to make love, Sex, things to know, what not to do, what to do, when she's ready, young love 8 Comments
Feb
16
2006
I Blame It All On George Michael
Creativity’s an organic process; I know what I want to write for y’all, but I can’t help it if something flicks the switch and something else comes out. This morning, I was sweeping the kitchen, dancing around, listening to cheesy ‘80s music, when this posting occurred to me. Remembering some of this fodder made me [...]
Also posted in Autobiographical, Being me, Best of Steff, Dimestore Philosophy, Humour, Journalling, keeping it real, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Specifically Steff Tagged being 13, childhood, childhood idols, dreaming, fantasies, first time, fond memories, george michael, heartthrob, hot guys, masturbating, my big crush, rock-star, silly girls, swoon, teen crush, teen years, wham, youth 9 Comments
I had an email from a woman who wanted to remain anonymous. “So how is the world with a virgin on the other side of 30? How virgin you may ask? Too! I haven’t even had a kiss since highschool so.… Am I going to end up a lost cause? I don’t even know how [...]
Also posted in Advice, Dating, Questions From Readers, Sex Tagged 30 year old virgin, Advice, mature virgins, Questions From Readers 13 Comments
Opting Into Ignorance