Tag Archives: adversity

Respect Yourself

I’m tired of women who get into a relationship, lose all of themselves in the man, the relationship ends in a matter of weeks, they come apart at the seams, and it’s “Oh, I’ll never love again.” Please. Get serious. And to moan and piss and whine like this publicly, on social media sites? Please. Get serious. [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Dating, Life 101, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, Women's Department, keeping it real, relationships | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Easter and Change in the Air

My earliest memory of something atypical of Easter-cliche-happenings was in the year I would turn 8, 1981. It was Easter Sunday morning and my father, mother, brother, and I were gathered in the bright yellow sunroom for breakfast when the phone rang. It was family back East. Seems my father’s father died that morning. I’d never [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Current Events, Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, Specifically Steff, writing | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

What to Learn from Unemployment

I woke up with a smile this morning. I woke up unemployed. It’s not permanent… yet. They have three months to hire me back. If they can’t, I get severance then. If they do, tickety-boo.  Just not for a while, please. I’m so fuckin’ tired from runnin’ so fuckin’ long. I need to stop. I [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, Life 101, Specifically Steff, keeping it real, writing | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Life x Hard = A Given

“Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. By god, you learn.” –C.S. Lewis. This year, when adversities come your way — and they will — remember that quote. That’s the one piece of knowledge that has gotten me through every experience in my life.
Posted in Dimestore Philosophy, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Society | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

A Moment of Thanksgiving this Thanksgiving

Lucky us! I have half a mug of coffee left! Just enough for us to squeeze in a quickie! What a FANTASTIC day. Beautiful, sunny. I’m going into work and kissing ass to have a short day. It’s fantastic working for women who understand that the here-and-now is as important as the year-end fiscal, and [...]
Posted in Journalling, Specifically Steff, fitness, keeping it real | Also tagged , , , , , | 1 Comment

The Struggle Between Optimism and Authenticity

Having woken up in a pretty sour mood, I got into my exercises after a pretty lengthy bit of procrastinating. While doing them, I watched Michael J. Fox’s Adventures of an Incurable Optimist, a one-hour documentary on his search to understand more about what makes us optimistic, and how it might impact things. It’s a [...]
Posted in Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , | 2 Comments
  • About Steff

    This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
    Read more

  • Support Steff!

    I hate ads, but I like money.
    If you like my content,
    feel free to show it through PayPal.
    Support is appreciated.