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Tag Archives: Advice
I began this series last month, here’s part one. It’s pretty unstructured, but the early part of the series is focusing on the head game, because without the head game down, you’ll have no success. It’s all in the head game. The most important thing you need to do if you want to effect serious change [...]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, General, How To Guides, Hygiene & Health, Lifestyle, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Specifically Steff, weight loss Also tagged being better, changing your life, changing yourself, depression, improving yourself, Lifestyle, smutwear, steff is dead long live steff, struggle to change, weight loss Leave a comment
So, a Twitterer made the comment that, with the holidays almost here, the annual malaise of reflection and regret would soon be upon him. And I thought, “Wow, this is gonna be the first time ever I sit down at the end of a year and go, “Holy fuck. I accomplished THAT?”” 16 months ago, [...]
Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Hygiene & Health, Journalling, Lifestyle, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Specifically Steff Also tagged being better, changing your life, changing yourself, depression, improving yourself, Lifestyle, smutwear, steff is dead long live steff, struggle to change, weight loss 3 Comments
I’ve not been in my right mind this week, literally. So, I’m about to do something I don’t often do, which is to qualify and revisit an opinion piece; the one I posted in response to an anonymous question yesterday. I’m human and flawed at the best of times, but this week I’ve been plagued [...]
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I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Communication, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Masturbation, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Politics, Questions From Readers, Religion, Sex, Sex Education, Society, Steff Rants, Viginity, Women's Department, keeping it real, relationships, sexuality Also tagged admitting it, being real, being sexual, honesty, hypocrisy, issues, kids, masturbating, not telling the truth, owning it, questions and answers, reader advice, relationship advice, romantic advice, sex advice, sexuality, tease, teasing, trust, virginity, young, youth 18 Comments
Valentine’s Day: All My Thoughts