Tag Archives: Advice

Valentine’s Day: All My Thoughts

Valentine’s day looms and I’ve deftly avoided the topic by not posting new stuff lately. Brilliant! But I guess it’s time for my annual rant against the Big Machine and the perpetuation of the belief that, hey, if it’s love, it’s worth going broke for. I know men buy gifts because they feel obligated. I know [...]
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Steff’s Easy-Start Guide to Changing Your Life: Part Two

I began this series last month, here’s part one. It’s pretty unstructured, but the early part of the series is focusing on the head game, because without the head game down, you’ll have no success. It’s all in the head game. The most important thing you need to do if you want to effect serious change [...]
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Steff’s Easy-Start Guide to Changing Your Life: Part One

So, a Twitterer made the comment that, with the holidays almost here, the annual malaise of reflection and regret would soon be upon him. And I thought, “Wow, this is gonna be the first time ever I sit down at the end of a year and go, “Holy fuck. I accomplished THAT?”” 16 months ago, [...]
Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Hygiene & Health, Journalling, Lifestyle, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Broken: Hearts, Minds, Vows, and Man

One of the things that’s simultaneously good and bad about this gig is that people tell me things from time to time they wouldn’t even tell their shrink. Just the other day one such letter arrived in my in-box. As is sometimes my habit, I entered into a knee-jerk response and was about to tear [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Dimestore Philosophy, keeping it real, Life 101, Marriage & Other Commitments, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, relationships, Sex, Society | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 16 Comments

Revisiting: “You Can Make Me Come, But…”

I’ve not been in my right mind this week, literally. So, I’m about to do something I don’t often do, which is to qualify and revisit an opinion piece; the one I posted in response to an anonymous question yesterday. I’m human and flawed at the best of times, but this week I’ve been plagued [...]
Posted in Advice, Autobiographical, Battle of the Comments, Being me, Best of Steff, better sex, Communication, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, relationships, Religion, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Q & A: “You Can Make Me Come, But We Can’t Fuck”

I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I [...]
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