Tag Archives: celibacy

Arousing — Er, Awaking the Beast

I’m at my breaking point, I suspect. My resolve isn’t very resolved anymore. I have this incredibly awesome gift most people would KILL for. When I’m not sexually involved, I can flip my libido off like a lightswitch. It’s why I’m so content to not date. Because dating just toys with my resolve. Once I’m [...]
Posted in Being single, Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Humour, Hygiene & Health, Romance, Sex, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

AIDS: Another Rant Against the Bush-League

First off, a big thank you to the cute blonde across the way who keeps wandering around in boxers and no shirt. Love those pecs. Welcome to the neighbourhood, neighbour. Kindness… With Strings If you attach conditions to kindness, it doesn’t seem to be so much that it’s humanitarianism you’re after, y’know? So, it was [...]
Posted in AIDS & STDs, Best of Steff, Current Events, Ethics, History, Hygiene & Health, keeping it real, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Religion, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Q&A: My Girlfriend Won’t Fuck Me Anymore

I get a lot of emails from readers from time to time, and for some reason, this past week has been filled with emails. Some are easy answers, some are ones I don’t want to tackle, some involve giving instruction (which I dislike doing, so I take my time), and some are just total mind-fucks, [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Consumerism, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, keeping it real, Life 101, Marriage & Other Commitments, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Questions From Readers, relationships, Religion, Sex, sex tips, sexuality | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments
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