About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Tag Archives: childhood
Aug
08
2011
Remembering Funny
I’m catching my breath after the two-part Lucy-Desi Comedy Hour episode with Tallulah Bankhead. I laughed and laughed and laughed. It was the 100th anniversary of Lucille Ball’s birth this weekend, teaching me something I previously didn’t know — my mother died on Lucille Ball’s birthday. Kind of weird. Mom loved Lucy. The top three shows [...]
Posted in Hollywood, Humour, Specifically Steff Also tagged comedians, comedy, funny, lucille ball, nostalgia, remembering, SNL 2 Comments
Dec
19
2010
A Christmas Candy Story, by Steff
This Christmas, people in my life are getting simple gifts. I’m making candy for most people. Fiscal Frugality is probably wise in my world — and in most worlds. Look around, right? The economy’s fucked. I could overspend, but I’d rather use my time and efforts and put ME into my gifts than injecting concern [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Specifically Steff, writing Also tagged a christmas memory, candy, christmas, gifts, giving, homemade, memories 4 Comments
The hardest part of losing weight, I’m finding, is the challenge of identity. Being fat isn’t just something that happens over the course of a month. Being fat, becoming as fat as I ever got, took me 25 years exactly. 25 years of daily contributing to an obviously ever-growing problem. From an eight-year-old spending a [...]
Posted in Dimestore Philosophy, fitness, Hygiene & Health, Psychology & Moods, Specifically Steff, weight loss Also tagged moving on, owning the past, self-analysis, weight loss 6 Comments
Sep
10
2008
When We Were Kids: Thoughts on BDSM
Experts will tell you that who we are in life is defined by the age of seven. Our ethics, our play, our work habits, it’s all laid out as part of who we are, and will continue to be, by seven. There are those who’ve taken this a step further and will tell you also that [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Sex, Society Also tagged beginner's bdsm, Bondage, power plays, sugasm, tastes 10 Comments
Aug
19
2008
Get to Know Yer Blogger
I feel like telling you random things about me, mostly because I’m too fucking tired to string coherent thoughts together, so “abstract” works spiff for me. And I’m not writing about sex today, so, y’know. Mental break. :) So, in no particular order, some of the things you probably don’t know about me and my life. [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, General, Journalling, Specifically Steff Also tagged cunting linguist, factoids, getting to know me, scribe called steff, things you don't know 7 Comments
RANT: They’ve banned ICE CREAM TRUCK music?