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I’ve not been in my right mind this week, literally. So, I’m about to do something I don’t often do, which is to qualify and revisit an opinion piece; the one I posted in response to an anonymous question yesterday. I’m human and flawed at the best of times, but this week I’ve been plagued [...]
Posted in Advice, Autobiographical, Battle of the Comments, Being me, Best of Steff, better sex, Communication, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, relationships, Religion, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, Women's Department Also tagged admitting it, Advice, being real, being sexual, honesty, hypocrisy, kids, masturbating, not telling the truth, owning it, questions and answers, reader advice, relationship advice, romantic advice, sex advice, sexuality, tease, teasing, trust, virginity, young, youth 5 Comments
I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Communication, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Masturbation, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Politics, Questions From Readers, relationships, Religion, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants, Viginity, Women's Department Also tagged admitting it, Advice, being real, being sexual, honesty, hypocrisy, kids, masturbating, not telling the truth, owning it, questions and answers, reader advice, relationship advice, romantic advice, sex advice, sexuality, tease, teasing, trust, virginity, young, youth 18 Comments
Jan
21
2006
Here’s to the Forty Percent
Masturbation is a sin. If you do it, you will never be able to be satisfied by your lover. If you do it, you will become addicted to it and will never be able to control yourself, even in public. If you do it, you will be a dirty woman. If you do it, everyone [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, dysfunction, feminism, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, Hygiene & Health, keeping it real, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Masturbation, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Women's Department Also tagged 40% of women don't masturbate, comfort, hang-ups, learning about yourself, Masturbation, repressed, self-love, sex statistics, sexual skill, touching yourself, who masturbates, why women won't touch themselves, why you should masturbate, women who are squeamish 17 Comments
For Christ’s Sake, Stop the Bleeding!