About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Tag Archives: libido
Mar
12
2009
Arousing — Er, Awaking the Beast
I’m at my breaking point, I suspect. My resolve isn’t very resolved anymore. I have this incredibly awesome gift most people would KILL for. When I’m not sexually involved, I can flip my libido off like a lightswitch. It’s why I’m so content to not date. Because dating just toys with my resolve. Once I’m [...]
Posted in Being single, Dating, Foreplay & Arousing, Humour, Hygiene & Health, Romance, Sex, Specifically Steff Also tagged awakening, celibacy, Dating, desire, Sex, spring, starting relationships, taking chances 4 Comments
Aug
06
2008
Holy Return of the Libido, Batman!
Sex. It’s been a while. Honestly? It’s been two years. As I’ve written about at length, I went on anti-depressants the summer of ’06, after birth control pills messed my body up something fierce, at the tail end of a relationship that turned to shit in record time, while getting laid off of multiple jobs in [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, Dating, General, Humour, Masturbation, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Specifically Steff, Steff Rants Also tagged anti-depressants, hormones, lack of sex, personal ads, stupid people 6 Comments
First things: Here’s where I remind you people that I’m not a doctor. I have no degrees in any medical or scientific discipline. I’m schooled in common sense and street smarts, and that’s it. In more blunt terms? Take my words for what they’re worth – an interested party offering an opinion, nothing more. In [...]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, dysfunction, Education, fitness, Foreplay & Arousing, Hygiene & Health, keeping it real, Life 101, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Orgasm Trouble, Psychology & Moods, Questions From Readers, relationships, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Women's Department Also tagged check-up, doctor, dried up, exercise, fitness, health, investigate, no interested, not aroused, not horny, sex drive, uninterested, weight 2 Comments
On Becoming a Sometimes-Sex-Blogger Again