About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Tag Archives: Lifestyle
Mar
16
2012
The Move, The Life, The Update
A brief recap of my recent life. I Moved West I moved across the Straight of Georgia to the southern tip of Vancouver Island. There, I live in Victoria. A few numbers about Victoria: Downtown, some 74,000 people live, compared with Vancouver’s 680,000. Greater Victoria packs a total of 360,000 fine folk, compared to Greater Vancouver’s [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Being me, slow, Specifically Steff Also tagged changing your life, going slow, victoria, where i moved 4 Comments
Feb
05
2012
Soon to Come: New Space, New Life
I’m sorry I’ve been away, Minions, but life has been full-tilt of late. Since the last time I wrote and now, I’ve gotten a lot more of my belongings packed, and took a three-day trip to find my new home. Which is to say, soon I’ll be living in a new and awesome space. It’s not [...]
Posted in Being me, Moving Also tagged changing speed, life choices, moving, what the soul needs 12 Comments
I had that “lightbulb” moment a couple of weeks ago that has served as a real catalyst for a change in thinking and being. A moment of my own stupidity just reminded me how many things happen to us due to a lack of care or attention in life. Big, small, whatever. Often, that lack of [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, fitness, keeping it real, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary) Also tagged back injuries, darth vader, overcoming obstacles, perspective, physio, pop philosophy, rehab 1 Comment
May
06
2010
Add Another Voice to the Fray
For everything I’ve published this week, four have gone into the depths, filed under lock and key, not fit for sharing. Too personal, too exploratory, too unconnected, too any-number-of-things. A lot of what I batted around regards my relationship with sex: Where it’s been, where it went, why it changed, why it matters, what it [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, better sex, blogging, Communication, Dimestore Philosophy, freedom, Gay or Straight?, History, keeping it real, Kink, Life 101, Lifestyle, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Psychology & Moods, relationships, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, writing Also tagged audience, average people, bdsm, Bondage, demographic, freedoms, Kink, middle of the road, Oral Sex, Politics, preferences, sex blogging, sex trade workers, sex writing, sexual tastes, styles, the sex community, writing about sex 2 Comments
The Will to Write: My Story