Tag Archives: loving yourself

Apr
22
2010

Respect Yourself

I’m tired of women who get into a relationship, lose all of themselves in the man, the relationship ends in a matter of weeks, they come apart at the seams, and it’s “Oh, I’ll never love again.” Please. Get serious. And to moan and piss and whine like this publicly, on social media sites? Please. Get serious. [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Dating, keeping it real, Life 101, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, relationships, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments
May
23
2009

Hanging Up on Hang-ups

Funny how we get so hung up on our hang-ups we sometimes don’t even notice when they’ve disappeared.* I was fucking floored Thursday night when I realized the varicose veins I’d been loathing for the last year had suddenly vanished in the last couple months, thanks to my awesome new fitness regime. Poof, gone. Ironically, I’d [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, Dimestore Philosophy, fitness, General, Hygiene & Health, Journalling, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Psychology & Moods, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Specifically Steff, weight loss | Also tagged , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments
Jun
23
2006

From Poutine to Self-Love, Baby!

I should not be writing. Another probably painfully tiring day awaits me tomorrow, before what is liable to be a mockery of a weekend, on which I believe I need to work Sunday, but the verdict is not yet in. (No, not real work. Taking a bunch of kids to a space museum. Yeah, who’s [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Being single, Best of Steff, feminism, Journalling, keeping it real, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Modern Feminism, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Women's Department, writing | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments
Dec
13
2005

Beyond Fat Girls

Labbie wrote a piece about weight and self-image recently. I enjoyed it. Then, later the same morning, I was watching my previously-taped episode of “Rescue Me” in which firefighters, Probie Mike and Sean, are making their way up the stairs to the flame-filled fifth floor, talking about a recent date, which ended in the Probie [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Being me, Best of Steff, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Eating Disorder, fitness, keeping it real, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 20 Comments
Oct
29
2005

The Joys of Masturbation

Without getting into it, “things” are confusing. The sex I thought would be regular thus far isn’t. Geography’s a bitch. So’s reality. It is what it is, baby. But that’s all right. I can always count on myself. So, without adieu, the reasons I love to masturbate — some of the many, many reasons: ___________________ I [...]
Posted in Being me, Being single, Masturbation, Modern Feminism, sexuality, Specifically Steff, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , | 13 Comments

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