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This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Tag Archives: messages
Jun
21
2006
Sex Sells Insecurity
So there’s this new show and I’ve seen all of 60 seconds of it, but I have some taped and will be weighing in with an opinion. It’s ABC’s How To Get The Guy. Great, just what we need. Yet another show that teaches women how to pander to the men around them in the [...]
Posted in Uncategorized | Also tagged being women, creating unhappiness, female insecurities, Games, headgames, me, media, men, mentality, messing with us, preying on insecurities, same old, stupidity, trends, tv, women and men | 4 Comments
Parents bear so much responsibility for how kids view sex. It’s a shame most of them don’t handle the subject better, and terrible that so little emphasis is placed on sexual education. Two things caused me to spend years questioning sex and feeling like a whore for engaging in it: the Catholic Church and my [...]
Posted in Advice, Autobiographical, Best of Steff, Communication, Current Events, Dimestore Philosophy, History, Hygiene & Health, Laws, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Psychology & Moods, Religion, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex Education, Society, Steff Rants, censorship, keeping it real, sexuality | Also tagged advertising, children, christianity, conversations, fear, ignorance, insecurities, media, nerves, opt-in, opt-out, panic, parents, planned parenthood, porn, questions, Religion, religious right, repression, safe sex, school, schoolboards, Sex, sex education, sex negative, sex positive, sexuality, smut, stereotypes, teen pregnancy, television, things to know, things to say, upbringing, what not to do, what to do | 8 Comments
Feb
15
2006
A Ramble: Valentine’s Day
This day, the 15th, is one of my least favourite days of the year for private reasons. I fucking hate it. So, I got to thinking last night as I smoked a joint and continued to write, and this is the rambling ode I had about being single on Valentine’s day, and I dedicate it [...]
Posted in Uncategorized | Also tagged advertising, aloneness, being happy, being in the moment, Being single, believing in yourself, commercials, contentment, dr. phil, enjoying yourself, forget about it, fuggedaboutit, garlic, garlic breath, i don't care, identity, important things, insecurities, life, loving myself, media, media messages, no apologies, peace, philosophy, popular opinion, propaganda, sense of self, single and happy, single and loving it, solitude, staring at the sky, stuck in single, television, time alone, valentine's day, values, yukon | 6 Comments
Should I Stay or Should I Go Now?