Tag Archives: old-fashioned

RANT: Labels Kill Sexuality

Four years ago I wrote a posting about cheating and in it I had a little rant about being called an “older woman” by the letter-writer when I was only 32. The posting is here, and today I deleted a comment that referred to the rant-within-the-posting with this comment that I’ve chosen to delete for [...]
Posted in Communication, keeping it real, Lifestyle, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, sexuality, Specifically Steff, Uncategorized | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

You asked? Some thoughts on “cuckolding”

I was asked a while back what my take on cuckolding is. I didn’t ask what the reader’s interpretation of the word is, but there’s a historical definition of it meaning that the male in a relationship is faithful while the woman can do whatever or whomever she likes. It’s, I guess, a sample of [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, keeping it real, Lifestyle, Marriage & Other Commitments, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Questions From Readers, relationships, Sex, Sexism, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , | 7 Comments

Putting My Foot Down On You, Dr. Scholl

I’m interviewing at an ad agency or two tomorrow. No, I won’t be doing any of the ad copy work or anything, more of a save-the-sanity support office worker, since I excel at that. But advertising is something I’ve always been very, very interested in. Remember the movie Crazy People, from years back? Daryll Hannah [...]
Posted in Battle of the Comments, Being me, Best of Steff, Dimestore Philosophy, Education, feminism, Hollywood, Humour, keeping it real, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sexism, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 10 Comments

Steff Rants: On “Letting” Women Masturbate

All right, I read a comment this morning from “The Dating Master” on my posting about why 40% of women don’t masturbate, and I’ve been a little riled ever since. I should be cleaning my house before my friend arrives for a barbecue later, but he’s seen the mess before, and I’ve got a groove on [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, dysfunction, feminism, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, keeping it real, Questions From Readers, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Steff Rants, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 19 Comments
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