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Tag Archives: Oral Sex
Aug
15
2008
A Frank Posting about Giving Head
I refused to give my “partner” head last weekend. This came as a shock. Having been somewhat drunk on good red wine, I had a good excuse. Truth is, it was an excuse. Somehow, in all my writing, I’ve apparently made it sound like sitting around with a penis in my mouth is about the [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, casual sex, Dating, Etiquette, Foreplay & Arousing, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Specifically Steff Also tagged foreplay, gag reflex, giving head, orgasms, penises, Sex 7 Comments
some days are clean slates, just waiting for some input, a spark, a suggestion. some days are lazy days of slack, and on such a day, it’s nice to receive a great email from a snazzy reader, especially when it’s something worth spending a little time writing on. if you have something you think i [...]
Sep
01
2006
Doing My Bit to Curb Surplus Forests
One of the things about suddenly becoming single — in the midst of a harrowing depression — is that I tend to begin to neglect myself. I ran out of hair removal stuff about six weeks ago and have continuously forgotten to buy it every time I’m in a drug store. Finally, yesterday, I remembered. [...]
Posted in Being me, Hygiene & Health, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Specifically Steff, Women's Department Also tagged bush, cover, grooming, hair, Hygiene & Health, landscaping, preference, shaving, too much hair, trim job, trimming, twat 5 Comments
Jul
30
2006
Getting Nailed
I aspire to write something good today, but for now my head’s in other spaces. This morning’s just getting started after one of my best sleeps in months. I’ve been so tired so long I’ve forgotten what good sleeps felt like. Fucking awesome is what they feel like. Watching Weeds this morning, and it’s a great [...]
Posted in Hollywood, Humour, Journalling, Specifically Steff Also tagged aroused, black men, fantasies, funny, getting nailed, horny, mary louise parker, neediness, weeds 4 Comments
So, I received an interesting email recently, and the reader had this to ask: I was wondering what your opinion is on oral sex etiquette. For guys AND girls, is one obliged to kiss someone who just finished going down on you? If your partner doesn’t feel like swallowing, what should he do about his come? Personally, [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, better sex, Communication, Dating, dysfunction, Etiquette, Foreplay & Arousing, Hygiene & Health, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Psychology & Moods, relationships, Romance, Sex, Sex Education, sex tips, sexuality, Women's Department Also tagged Etiquette, how to behave, how to fake it, oral, oral etiquette, swallowing, what not to do, what to do, what women want 10 Comments
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