Tag Archives: owning it

The Power to Own It

I began a new blog today. There’s an area of my life I don’t feel like writing about here or anywhere else too obviously just yet, so I figure a new blog is a good way to do it. But I don’t want true anonymity, I don’t want to write for just myself, because what I’m going [...]
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Revisiting: “You Can Make Me Come, But…”

I’ve not been in my right mind this week, literally. So, I’m about to do something I don’t often do, which is to qualify and revisit an opinion piece; the one I posted in response to an anonymous question yesterday. I’m human and flawed at the best of times, but this week I’ve been plagued [...]
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Q & A: “You Can Make Me Come, But We Can’t Fuck”

I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I [...]
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