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This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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While all the good little people were out getting in touch with their god of choice, I was having a lovely Sunday morning watching a BDSM fairytale, Secretary. I’ve been meaning to see Secretary since its release in 2002, as I’ve been a lifelong fan of James Spader ever since I loved hating him in [...]
Posted in Being me, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, freedom, keeping it real, Kink, Laws, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Marriage & Other Commitments, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, relationships, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, Uncategorized, Women's Department | Also tagged bdsm, beliefs, Bondage, choices, dominance, Games, hangups, Hollywood, issues, james spader, Kink, Lifestyle, movies, perceptions, personal choices, personal needs, perspective, pretty in pink, restraints, roleplay, s&m, screenplays, scripts, secretary, Sex, sexuality, spanking, submission, tastes | 15 Comments
(I forgot to include the link to part one, which is here.) Bondage can become part of your life for a lot of reasons. Sometimes, it’s a way for folks to deal with the anxiety of their lives; symbolically giving control to another, or taking control. Sometimes, it’s for less honourable reasons. Sometimes, it’s just another [...]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, sexuality, Women's Department | Also tagged basics, binds, Bondage, bondage for beginners, for beginners, Games, getting tied up, harnesses, how to do bondage, introduction, Kink, kinky, learning bondage, leather, restraints, ropes, safety, Sex, sex games, straps, techniques, ties, tips, tying her up, tying him up, what not to do, what to do | 9 Comments
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, bondage is something everyone should experience. Too often, things like bondage or use of sex toys or whatever are all obscured by a perception that they’re made for people who REALLY are into sex as a lifestyle. Not so. But even if it were so, what’s so [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Questions From Readers, relationships, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, Society, Women's Department | Also tagged basics, binds, Bondage, bondage for beginners, for beginners, Games, getting tied up, harnesses, how to do bondage, introduction, Kink, kinky, learning bondage, leather, restraints, ropes, safety, Sex, sex games, straps, techniques, ties, tips, tying her up, tying him up, what not to do, what to do | 34 Comments
(Fun for everyone! I forgot that I have a few things in my stores I can post, like this review:) You know I’m a fan of voyeurism, but sometimes the best voyeurism is the one where no one even knows what’s going down. An egg, an itty-bitty harmless egg came in my mail lately, and while [...]
Posted in Consumerism, Foreplay & Arousing, freedom, Humour, Kink, Masturbation, Product Reviews, Sex, Sex Toy Reviews, Sex Toys & Aids, Specifically Steff, Women's Department | Also tagged batteries, egg toy, Masturbation, orgasm, remote, remote-controlled egg, Sex, sex toys, the egg, vibrator | 4 Comments
Beginner’s Fun with Role Play