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Tag Archives: Questions From Readers
I’m 32 today, folks. That being the case, I’m a little busy being busy and birthdayish for the next couple of days. YAY me. I wrote this posting over on NYHotties for you kids to read in answer to LabBoy’s question about the “five-minute” rule — you know, how guys tend to blow their wad the [...]
Posted in Advice, Dating, dysfunction, How To Guides, Men's Department, Orgasm Trouble, Questions From Readers, Sex, Sex Toys & Aids Also tagged cockrings, erection aides, sextoys 10 Comments
Sep
24
2005
You asked? Cock Rings
Chelsea Girl requested that I address the issue of cock rings. So, here goes. Once upon a time, in Middle Earth, a Hobbit named Frodo went on a quest to destroy the One Ring that would rule them all… Err. Well. Okay, different ring. A cock ring is a blood-flow restrictor for the penis. Cock rings [...]
Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Men's Department, Questions From Readers, Sex, Sex Toys & Aids Also tagged cock rings, prologing erections, q&a 14 Comments
Sep
22
2005
Harrass this, you PC bastards
When I recently whored myself for more topics, Grover Flanagan asked this: Ooh! Ooh! I’ve got one! A new girl just started at work. She’s either as tall or just a bit taller than I am, cute as hell, and built like a brick house. (what a winning hand!) I’ve introduced myself, but have no idea [...]
Posted in Advice, Dating, Laws, Questions From Readers Also tagged harrassment, seeing coworkers, should i ask her out 7 Comments
I had an email from a woman who wanted to remain anonymous. “So how is the world with a virgin on the other side of 30? How virgin you may ask? Too! I haven’t even had a kiss since highschool so.… Am I going to end up a lost cause? I don’t even know how [...]
Posted in Advice, Dating, Questions From Readers, Sex, Viginity Also tagged 30 year old virgin, Advice, mature virgins 13 Comments
This was a posting over at www.NYHotties.com by yours truly. The blog owner there is Alexa, so this was a letter sent to Alexa, and Alexa asked me to answer it for her: Hi, I’m Steff, and I’ll be your cruise director tonight. I’m a Canadian girl, born & raised in Vancouver, and I run a [...]
Posted in Advice, How To Guides, Masturbation, Orgasm Trouble, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department Also tagged i can't orgasm, trouble with orgasms, women who can't orgasm 2 Comments
Dear Reader: Go Fuck Yourself