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Tag Archives: sex tips
Apr
24
2006
Oy vey, you searched for what?
This one sounds really innocuous, until you start thinking of the implications of language. In reviewing my webstats just now, I came across someone who landed on me via this search string: “How do I position myself when having sex with my honeymoon partner?” Honeymoon partner. Wow. Bet that’ll be an unbridled night of torrid [...]
Posted in Being me, Specifically Steff Also tagged Advice, google, honeymoon, Humour, nitpicky, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), partner, snippy 9 Comments
Woman on Bottom bravely asked a few of those questions most women don’t ask because they’re too embarrassed. How does a woman, under her lover, get involved and change the pace of things when he’s thrusting away? And also, does a Vixen’s role change when it’s lovemaking as opposed to fucking, and vice versa? Let’s tackle [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, better sex, Dating, dysfunction, feminism, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, keeping it real, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Orgasm Trouble, Psychology & Moods, Questions From Readers, relationships, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, Sex Education, sex tips, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Women's Department Also tagged becoming aggressive, being a better lover, better sex on the bottom, dead fish, getting him hot, great lay, hot chicks, hot lovers, hot women, leg techniques, men on top, missionary position, scratching, sex advice, sexuality, sexy women, unleashing your vixen, what to do on the bottom, woman on bottom, women on bottom 17 Comments
Figleaf was kind enough to look over all the questions posed by women in regards to male masturbation of late, and compiled a hefty response for y’all. I enjoy Fig’s site a lot since it offers a lot of what I enjoy to read: Intelligent discussion about sex. It’s a nifty thing to have him guesting [...]
Posted in Advice, better sex, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, Kink, Masturbation, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Questions From Readers, relationships, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, Sex Education, sex tips, sexuality, Women's Department Also tagged answers, getting off, getting turned on, hand jobs, handjobs, how to masturbate, jacking off, jerking off, masturbating, masturbating together, Masturbation, masturbation tips, men masturbating, mutual masturbation, question and answer, questions, questions about masturbation, sex advice, taking care of business, talking about masturbation, touching them, touching yourself, turn-on, voyeurism, wanking, watching, watching a lover masturbate, watching them masturbate 5 Comments
I’ve been on a masturbation writing tear, and I’ve got more to say about it, too, from a couple different points of view, and both will be a little tricky to say just exactly what I want to say, so I’m biding my time on those – but later this week, they’ll be up. In the [...]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, keeping it real, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Women's Department Also tagged Advice, bad lovers, how to be a better lover, how to change, ignorance, inattentive lovers, lousy lovers, selfish lovers, sex advice, things to think about, what makes a good lover 16 Comments
Dec
04
2005
Lazy Days of Lovin’ Tip
Call me old-fashioned, but I think there’s few finer ways to spend a Sunday than staying home, closing the blinds, and makin’ sweet love all the day long. In honour of Sundays, this simple tip: One of the easy things to do to make a night or day of bedroom sports better and longer is [...]
Posted in Uncategorized Also tagged planning ahead, sex tip, sexcation, smart idea, staycation, things to plan for in sex 2 Comments
Oh, You Naughty Librarian!