Tag Archives: teasing

Sex & Food: Together Again?

I’m a foodie. Yes, I am. And I got to tell ya, he prospect of regular sex has begun to loom, and this excites me considerably. Sets me all a-flutter, truth be told. But, you know, for all those strenuous hours of fun that potentially loom, one requires fuel. Enter food. So I’m not sure what excites […]
Posted in Best of Steff, Dating, Food & Recipes, Foreplay & Arousing, Journalling, Lust & Longing, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sex, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , | 6 Comments

On Oral, A Reader Asks: Can I Really Tease Her For More Than An Hour?

some days are clean slates, just waiting for some input, a spark, a suggestion. some days are lazy days of slack, and on such a day, it’s nice to receive a great email from a snazzy reader, especially when it’s something worth spending a little time writing on. if you have something you think i […]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, Foreplay & Arousing, Gay or Straight?, How To Guides, Men's Department, Oral Sex, Questions From Readers, Sex, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , | 5 Comments

Revisiting: “You Can Make Me Come, But…”

I’ve not been in my right mind this week, literally. So, I’m about to do something I don’t often do, which is to qualify and revisit an opinion piece; the one I posted in response to an anonymous question yesterday. I’m human and flawed at the best of times, but this week I’ve been plagued […]
Posted in Advice, Autobiographical, Battle of the Comments, Being me, Best of Steff, better sex, Communication, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, relationships, Religion, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Q & A: “You Can Make Me Come, But We Can’t Fuck”

I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I […]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Communication, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Masturbation, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Politics, Questions From Readers, relationships, Religion, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants, Viginity, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 18 Comments

Hey, honey, mind photocopying this — and your ass — for me?

A recent sexual harassment lawsuit was tossed out of court in the USA. It doesn’t amount to much in the scheme of things, but I’m fucking elated about it. During writing meetings on the show “Friends,” things would get raunchy. Sex-talk and profanity would lace the meetings, and one woman got her panties in a twist […]
Posted in Battle of the Comments, Being me, Best of Steff, Communication, Current Events, Dimestore Philosophy, Hollywood, keeping it real, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Sex, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments

I Done Sprung, Baby

I’m a sexually peaking 32-year-old woman who’s just been hit with her first full dose of spring fever. I need sex, and I want it now. Tonight I hung out with my first sex blogger for some cool conversation, some Guinness, a stroll, and a bus ride. A nice night. I noticed then as we wandered […]
Posted in Autobiographical, Being me, Being single, Best of Steff, casual sex, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, keeping it real, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Romance, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Society | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 14 Comments
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