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Tag Archives: touching yourself
Jan
26
2006
Male Masturbation
On second thought, if I can’t post for a couple days, let’s get the ball rolling on the topic of male masturbation. Obviously, being female, I can’t really input a lot on this topic, so I need reader help. I’ll have a fabulous guest writer for this main posting, so let’s see if we can [...]
Posted in sexuality, Uncategorized Also tagged female masturbation, how do you masturbate, male masturbation, Masturbation, masturbation styles, techniques, touching myself 26 Comments
Jan
21
2006
Here’s to the Forty Percent
Masturbation is a sin. If you do it, you will never be able to be satisfied by your lover. If you do it, you will become addicted to it and will never be able to control yourself, even in public. If you do it, you will be a dirty woman. If you do it, everyone [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, dysfunction, feminism, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, Hygiene & Health, keeping it real, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Masturbation, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Women's Department Also tagged 40% of women don't masturbate, comfort, hang-ups, issues, learning about yourself, Masturbation, repressed, self-love, sex statistics, sexual skill, who masturbates, why women won't touch themselves, why you should masturbate, women who are squeamish 17 Comments
Jan
20
2006
Why 40% of Women Don’t Masturbate
Every now and then male-female relations seem like a bad day at the UN. Understanding the issues is imperative, but no one speaks the same language. John Gray got rich off the chaos that exists in that weird little world of relationships, by telling us that men were from Mars, and women from Venus. It’s [...]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, feminism, keeping it real, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Masturbation, Modern Feminism, Sex, Uncategorized, Women's Department Also tagged comfort, hang-ups, learning about yourself, Masturbation, self-love, sexual skill, who masturbates, why you should masturbate 44 Comments
And I’ve been thinking about masturbation. Not doing it, writing about it. I still want to hear more results and comments and emails based on the letter down below, but I think this topic is growing in importance for me. Yes, guys need to understand more about female masturbation – but so do 40% of the [...]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, dysfunction, Education, feminism, Foreplay & Arousing, How To Guides, Masturbation, Modern Feminism, Orgasm Trouble, Sex, Sex Education, Sex Toys & Aids, sexuality, Society, Women's Department Also tagged comfort, hang-ups, how to masturbate, learning about yourself, learning to masturbate, Masturbation, self-love, sexual skill, who masturbates, why you should masturbate 12 Comments
Oct
29
2005
The Joys of Masturbation
Without getting into it, “things” are confusing. The sex I thought would be regular thus far isn’t. Geography’s a bitch. So’s reality. It is what it is, baby. But that’s all right. I can always count on myself. So, without adieu, the reasons I love to masturbate — some of the many, many reasons: ___________________ I [...]
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