About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Tag Archives: what not to do
Jul
27
2010
Hate Lives Here
Yesterday a local Vancouver paper asked a question on its Facebook page: “Do you think more could be done to combat homophobia?” In the ensuing comments, a White Pride freak — who I’m really fucking wanting to identify by name here but don’t feel like dealing with the legal hassle as a little blogger girl [...]
Posted in Battle of the Comments, blogging, censorship, Crime, Current Events, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, Facebook, Gay or Straight?, internet, keeping it real, Life 101, Lifestyle, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Society, Specifically Steff Also tagged bad people, changing the world, fighting hate, hate, hate speech, homophobia, homophobic, prejudism, racism, reality, reality check, skinheads, what's going on, white power, white pride 6 Comments
Jun
29
2010
Diving into Safety Head-First
We have helmet laws here in British Columbia. Even if we didn’t, I’d be wearing mine. One saved my life. And still I’m different than I used to be. When I saw this article come up on Twitter, I got pretty choked about it. I started thinking of the friends I’ve seen riding without a helmet [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Current Events, Dimestore Philosophy, Hygiene & Health, Journalling, keeping it real, Laws, Life 101, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Society, Steff Rants, Twitter Also tagged accidents, brain damage, bump on the head, change your life, changing your life, coma, concussion, doing it wrong, head injuries, health, helmet safety, helmets, hurting your head, msp, preventable 12 Comments
Hello, world! I’m still in a mad spiral as I sort out everything to do with my loan, and then I can slowly segue back to mostly-broke time-on-her-hands Steff that brings you tons to read. It’s been WEEKS since I’ve been able to sit at my writing desk to write for you, but I think [...]
Aug
14
2008
The Day-After Blogging Shame
You know, this whole recovering-Catholic thing plays so badly with writing any kind of exposés about my own sex life. I feel horribly guilty, like a first-class cunt, for having posted my thingie about my “underwhelming weekend sex” yesterday. But then I got to thinking about it. First, I placed an ad for sex. I made it [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, casual sex, Dating, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Sex, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants Also tagged bad lovers, bad sex, no foreplay, premature ejaculation 9 Comments
Yesterday, I made rather not-so-subtle reference to the fact that I finally got laid last weekend in this posting. I wasn’t going to say anything, really, because I was decidedly underwhelmed by the experience. But then, you know, I thought, “It’s for the greater good! People must know!” So, without getting into detail here, let’s [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, casual sex, Dating, dysfunction, Humour, Journalling, Sex, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants Also tagged bad lovers, bad sex, shoulda said no 7 Comments
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