Tag Archives: what to do

Aug
03
2006

Broken: Hearts, Minds, Vows, and Man

One of the things that’s simultaneously good and bad about this gig is that people tell me things from time to time they wouldn’t even tell their shrink. Just the other day one such letter arrived in my in-box. As is sometimes my habit, I entered into a knee-jerk response and was about to tear [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Dimestore Philosophy, keeping it real, Life 101, Marriage & Other Commitments, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, relationships, Sex, Society | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 16 Comments
Jul
21
2006

Beginner’s Fun with Role Play

In Cronenberg’s A History of Violence, we’re given a great beginner’s demonstration of how to perform low-stress, low-prep role playing games. In that scene, Viggo Mortensen’s character is seduced by his wife, who says, “We never got to be teenagers together… I’m going to fix that.” She abandons him in the bedroom for an uncomfortable length [...]
Posted in Advice, better sex, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, Men's Department, relationships, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , | 3 Comments
May
17
2006

Sex, You, and Your Kid: How Parents Are Failing

Parents bear so much responsibility for how kids view sex. It’s a shame most of them don’t handle the subject better, and terrible that so little emphasis is placed on sexual education. Two things caused me to spend years questioning sex and feeling like a whore for engaging in it: the Catholic Church and my [...]
Posted in Advice, Autobiographical, Best of Steff, censorship, Communication, Current Events, Dimestore Philosophy, History, Hygiene & Health, keeping it real, Laws, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Psychology & Moods, Religion, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex Education, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 8 Comments
May
15
2006

Bondage for Beginners: Part Two, Basic Guidelines

(I forgot to include the link to part one, which is here.) Bondage can become part of your life for a lot of reasons. Sometimes, it’s a way for folks to deal with the anxiety of their lives; symbolically giving control to another, or taking control. Sometimes, it’s for less honourable reasons. Sometimes, it’s just another [...]
Posted in Advice, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, fantasies, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, sexuality, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 9 Comments
May
10
2006

Bondage for Beginners, Part One: What You Need

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, bondage is something everyone should experience. Too often, things like bondage or use of sex toys or whatever are all obscured by a perception that they’re made for people who REALLY are into sex as a lifestyle. Not so. But even if it were so, what’s so [...]
Posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, better sex, Bondage, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, How To Guides, Kink, Lifestyle, MacGyvery Sex Aids & Props, Men's Department, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Questions From Readers, relationships, Sex, sex tips, Sex Toys & Aids, Society, Women's Department | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 34 Comments
Apr
29
2006

Warning: Excessive Bliss May Be Good For You

I would have said that “the Guy has this saying,” but according to Google, there’s 14,700 hits for the phrase “post-coital bliss.” It’s all about the PCB. Blissed out and riding that wave back to normalcy. Nothing recharges the batteries like a good lay, don’t ya think? It’s Saturday morning (as if you didn’t know) and [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, better sex, General, Humour, Marriage & Other Commitments, relationships, Romance, Sex, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 13 Comments

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