About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Tag Archives: lovers
Sep
11
2008
When Fighting Gets Fun
I love wrestling with lovers. The not-so-grudge match. And while I put up a hell of a fight, and even like to win sometimes, the truth is, losing ain’t so bad at all. You have to admit, this is one time that losing really isn’t losing. There’s a little incentive to suddenly just not resisting [...]
May
19
2006
It’s Not You, It’s Me
That phrase is among select company in the statements none of us wants to hear in a relationship we value. It’s gone beyond being a standard line given when something inexplicable has gone awry in a relationship to being a pop-culture joke of reknown. In Seinfeld, George Costanza freaks out after being dumping by a [...]
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