About Steff
This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Tag Archives: sex blogging
May
06
2010
Add Another Voice to the Fray
For everything I’ve published this week, four have gone into the depths, filed under lock and key, not fit for sharing. Too personal, too exploratory, too unconnected, too any-number-of-things. A lot of what I batted around regards my relationship with sex: Where it’s been, where it went, why it changed, why it matters, what it [...]
Posted in Best of Steff, better sex, blogging, Communication, Dimestore Philosophy, freedom, Gay or Straight?, History, keeping it real, Kink, Life 101, Lifestyle, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Politics, Psychology & Moods, relationships, Sex, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, writing Also tagged audience, average people, bdsm, Bondage, demographic, freedoms, Kink, Lifestyle, middle of the road, Oral Sex, Politics, preferences, sex trade workers, sex writing, sexual tastes, styles, the sex community, writing about sex 2 Comments
As a so-called sex writer, I went off the reservation a long, long time ago. As a writer, I’m writing a book, and it means revisiting all my work from the last few years. In the process, I’m tagging & categorizing all my posts so you’ll have an easier time to search relevant topics. But, boy, [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, keeping it real, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Specifically Steff, writing Also tagged Al Pacino, Any Given Sunday, becoming a better lover, Being single, blogging about sex, Dating, dating again, eroticism, groaning, learning about yourself, learning your sexuality, libido, loud lovers, moaning, noise during sex, philosophy on sex, Sex, sexual journey, sexuality, sharing sexuality, why i write about sex, why writing about sex matters 1 Comment
It’s funny, this whole “sex blogger community” thing. I’m all for it, but I don’t feel part of it at all. Not because people don’t include me, they do. It’s just… it’s complicated. I’ve always felt this way, but in the recent months my feelings have been given a boost and now I feel sort [...]
Posted in Being single, Dating, Journalling, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Society, Specifically Steff, Twitter Also tagged community, Lifestyle, Sex 2 Comments
Aug
25
2006
The Dubious Nature of Anonymity
I’ve had an email or two that has asked what I think about bloggers getting outted and shit like that. I got outted last year. My name is Steffani Cameron, all right? I really don’t give a fuck who knows, ‘cos anyone with a nickel and half a brain can run my handle through Google and [...]
The Fear of Moving On