Tag Archives: Being single

Apr
19
2010

On Becoming a Sometimes-Sex-Blogger Again

As a so-called sex writer, I went off the reservation a long, long time ago. As a writer, I’m writing a book, and it means revisiting all my work from the last few years. In the process, I’m tagging & categorizing all my posts so you’ll have an easier time to search relevant topics. But, boy, [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, keeping it real, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Sex, sexuality, Specifically Steff, writing | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment
Jun
16
2008

Rant: Tired of Defending a “Party of One”

As a blogger, nothing gets me going better than comments. It’s when people comment that we know we’ve said something not only worth reading, but worth considering, and sometimes even worth arguing. Yesterday’s posting inspired a bit of a discussion between a couple of readers, so I’ll excerpt those comments here: Anon: “And that’s the [...]
Posted in Battle of the Comments, Being single, Best of Steff, Dating, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Society, Steff Rants | Also tagged , , , | 9 Comments
Jun
15
2008

How to Enjoy the Single (And Non-Dating) Life

Most places you look and read will have you believe that everyone who’s single dates all the time. Really? My friends and I have missed that memo. So it’s easy to feel like you’re a loser when you’re the one who’s totally current on what’s happening on all your favourite tv shows, since you’re the one [...]
Posted in Advice, Being single, Best of Steff, Dating, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Self-Love & Self-Esteem, sugasm | Also tagged , , | 10 Comments
Jul
25
2006

RANT(ish): Fuck that Couch!

My couch is gone. My piece of shit, black vinyl couch is gone. In its place is a new, black-and-blue cloth (presumably piece of shit but thus far unproven as such) couch that I was given as a warranty replacement. Also gone is its history. All those nights spent cuddling with cute guys, the dirty [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Being me, Being single, casual sex, Consumerism, Dating, Depression, Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, keeping it real, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, relationships, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, sexuality, Society, Specifically Steff, Steff Rants, writing | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 10 Comments
Jul
09
2006

And then there was None

Well, I’m single now. We pulled the Band-aid off and decided things just weren’t working. As far as break-ups go, this was the best I’ve probably ever had. It’ll be hard for me to be friends, I suspect, since I’m not really the one who quit the relationship. He was trying really hard to keep his [...]
Posted in Autobiographical, Being me, Being single, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, keeping it real, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), relationships, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 11 Comments
Mar
18
2006

Being Alone And Dealing

I’m weird, one of my best times for getting inspired to write is during housecleaning. I think it’s a procrastination thing. I wasn’t planning on posting, but I checked my comments and one made me think. Then I started doing the dishes, and snap, crackle, pop, a memory kicked in, and next thing you know, [...]
Posted in Advice, Autobiographical, Being single, Best of Steff, Dimestore Philosophy, Journalling, keeping it real, Life 101, Loving and Knowing Yourself, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Psychology & Moods, Self-Love & Self-Esteem, Society, Specifically Steff | Also tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 13 Comments

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