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This is my interstellar craft of truth and wit. Buckle up. If you want celebrity gossip, this is not the blog for you. If you want comfortable postings that’ll fill you with happy fuzzy thoughts about the world at large, or self-help guru shit, this is not the blog for you.
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Category Archives: Masturbation
Is there anything more fun than walking out a postal outlet knowing that, under your arms, is a big-ass box of sex toys, and no one there has a clue? My local postal outlet’s in a 7–11. So there I am, walking out with a box of orgasms under my arm, and everyone else has got [...]
[Steff note: This posting began as an attempt for me to try and explain a little why women should act out loud when they’re masturbating in the privacy of home — thrusting, grabbing at their breasts and ass, grunting, whatever it takes… but it got a lot deeper and a lot bigger than just a [...]
Jul
03
2008
All Wound Up and No One to Spring On
A storm is brewing. The air is thick, heavy, clinging,and almost chewy. Now and then a salt-laden breeze sweeps through my apartment, bringing a fragment of relief. And then it goes away, and all that’s left is this ominous forbearance of a change about to rain down on us, literally. I love when a storm [...]
Also posted in Being single, Best of Steff, Dating, Humour, Lust & Longing, Sex, Specifically Steff Tagged arousal, chocolate, horny, need sex, shag me, too single 4 Comments
I was sent the following question in a comment this morning, and yes, they were right, it is an interesting topic to write about. Time’s not on my side today, so this is a quick take on the question… a question that could unleash some interesting discussion, and I hope it does. I decided that I [...]
Also posted in Advice, Battle of the Comments, Best of Steff, Communication, Dating, Dimestore Philosophy, Ethics, Foreplay & Arousing, Games, keeping it real, Life 101, Lust & Longing, Men's Department, Modern Feminism, Opinion (Editorial & Commentary), Oral Sex, Politics, Questions From Readers, relationships, Religion, Sex, Sex Education, sexuality, Society, Steff Rants, Viginity, Women's Department Tagged admitting it, Advice, being real, being sexual, honesty, hypocrisy, issues, kids, masturbating, not telling the truth, owning it, questions and answers, reader advice, relationship advice, romantic advice, sex advice, sexuality, tease, teasing, trust, virginity, young, youth 18 Comments
Sextoy Review! The GIGI “Pleasure Object” by LELO